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HUGE UPDATE!!! Has this ever been STOLEN from you?
by Anonymous
February 23, 2013 at 10:41 PM
Update: So late last night while SO was at work he text me and came clean. He took them. Which I already knew based on the facts and my gut feeling.

He said he was super pissed and stressed
Wasnt thinking at all and had a momentary lapse of judgment. He said he felt bad after he left my place, and got scared cause he's never stolen anything before. He said he then got rid of the pills. I asked him what he did with them and he said he gave them to some old drunk guy at the bar.

At this point I was FURIOUS!
I asked him why he didnt just confess and give them back when I had him come over to get his things out of my place. He said he didnt want to do that in front of my friend. So I told him that he obviously values his pride over hurting me the one person he claims to love. I told him to grow up, man up and own what he did and stop making excuses.

Then I asked him if he really didnt take any and to be honest. He said he took one and gave the rest to the old guy. Once again I was pissed he didnt tell me the whole truth when he confessed. I told him I cant trust him at all, what he did severely hurt me, and I cant have my daughter around someone who does things like that and now ill always worry on if it would happen again.

So I told him were done and that it was a deal breaker. I do love him very much but this is something too serious. At least to me it is.




Ok, so I need advice from people that had this happen to them.



I get a prescription every month for Percocet due to my stage 4 endometriosis. My period is due in 2 days, so I dropped my script off yesterday at Walgreens. My car is now broken. So I asked if my SO could please pick it up for me. He did, dropped it off, and left right away to go meet his parents.



Later in the day while in my kitchen, I noticed the bag wasnt stapled shut anymore. I thought it was odd. So I decided to count the pills. I am 4 pills short. I called Walgreens and they originally double counted it before it was picked up, and then they counted the stock bottle just to make sure. Their numbers were correct and they were not 4 pills over.



My SO was the only person to have access to it before I did. I confronted him on it and he swears to God he did not take them. He said he loves me way too much to do anything so stupid. That he'd never take my meds that are for me to help my excruciating pain.



I automatically blamed him. For the fact that growing up he used to do drugs and pills. He's been sober a few years now and often says how he'd never want to go down that road again. Especially since one of his best friends died due to a pill overdose.



I want to believe him, I really do, but its hard to argue the facts. I need to ensure my dd and I are safe and he knows that ANY drug use that isnt prescribed to him by a doctor is an automatic deal breaker.



I told him to get his things and leave for now. I just feel so hurt. If you've had this happen to you, how did that person act? How did you go about it, and what did you do?

Replies

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    February 23, 2013 at 10:44 PM

    no never meds , ive had other things stolen

  • davnrori
    February 23, 2013 at 10:45 PM

     Nothing like this has ever happened to me but I think you did the right thing based on the facts. There was only one person between you and getting your meds from the pharmacy and that was your SO.

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    February 23, 2013 at 10:45 PM
    How did that person act when confronted?

    Quoting Anonymous:

    no never meds , ive had other things stolen

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    February 23, 2013 at 10:46 PM
    Exactly. I just dont see what else could have happend.

    Quoting davnrori:

     Nothing like this has ever happened to me but I think you did the right thing based on the facts. There was only one person between you and getting your meds from the pharmacy and that was your SO.

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    February 23, 2013 at 10:48 PM

    My first husband would take my meds for endometriosis or the tylenol #3 I'd get from the dentist.  He would deny it, but it was him and it would happen almost every time he went to pick up the script.  Untrustworthy assholes.

  • beachbabies6
    February 23, 2013 at 10:48 PM


    denial of course

    Quoting Anonymous:

    How did that person act when confronted?

    Quoting Anonymous:

    no never meds , ive had other things stolen



  • headingsouth13
    February 23, 2013 at 10:48 PM

     i have had whole bottles stolen

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    February 23, 2013 at 10:49 PM
    Ugh. Thats like so so so serious. And extremely selfish because the person who needs them is in serious pain!

    Quoting Anonymous:

    My first husband would take my meds for endometriosis or the tylenol #3 I'd get from the dentist.  He would deny it, but it was him and it would happen almost every time he went to pick up the script.  Untrustworthy assholes.

  • KristenFowles
    February 23, 2013 at 10:49 PM

     I'm sorry momma but.. It was probably him.. :/

    I don't see it as something you CAN'T work through if he comes clean about it though..

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    February 23, 2013 at 10:49 PM

    I would be willing to bet he took them.

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