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First date- What would you do in this situation?
by Anonymous
February 19, 2013 at 2:20 PM

You've had a great 4th date with a handsome guy. As far as you know, he is only dating you and not being intimate with anyone else. For this date, you decided to have dinner at his house. This man/woman lives alone and you're 100% sure he doesn't have any room mates. In the middle of the date, you excuse yourself to use the bathroom. While using the bathroom you notice a used condom in the garbage pail and it's evidently fresh. Dinner has not yet been served. What do you do?

ETA: He has claimed since meeting, that he has been celibate 7 years and is not sexually active.

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  • JoshuasMommii
    February 19, 2013 at 2:21 PM
    Ask him
  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    February 19, 2013 at 2:22 PM

    bump

  • owl0210
    by owl0210
    February 19, 2013 at 2:23 PM

    Well four dates does not automatically mean you're in a committed relationship unless that has already been discussed.

  • BeAmour
    by BeAmour
    February 19, 2013 at 2:24 PM
    Ask him what's up.
  • edelweiss23
    February 19, 2013 at 2:25 PM
    This


    Quoting owl0210:

    Well four dates does not automatically mean you're in a committed relationship unless that has already been discussed.


  • Two_Hearts
    February 19, 2013 at 2:25 PM
    well it depends..
    if i were sleeping with him...i would ask if he was sleeping with anyone else.

    if i haven't slept with him..i would probably excuse myself and go.

    if a man is really interested in you..he would only want to sleep with you
  • SommelierMom
    February 19, 2013 at 2:25 PM
    If this is only the 4th date, why would you believe he's not sexually involved with anyone else?
  • Anonymous 2
    by Anonymous 2
    February 19, 2013 at 2:26 PM
    ask him about it. Then leave. I would listen to what he had to say and leave. He might be expecting some and who knows if the sheets were washed yet. I'd leave and never look back.
  • Anonymous 3
    by Anonymous 3
    February 19, 2013 at 2:26 PM
    Quoting Two_Hearts:

    well it depends..
    if i were sleeping with him...i would ask if he was sleeping with anyone else.

    if i haven't slept with him..i would probably excuse myself and go.

    if a man is really interested in you..he would only want to sleep with you



    It's only the fourth date.
  • LAXmom21
    February 19, 2013 at 2:26 PM
    I would not assume he wasn't dating anyone else unless he said so.

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