He is such a big baby. No where near the real man I thought he was. He works 5 days a week from 10:30 to 7, has it so easy managing a little sandwich shop, yet he cries constantly about how miserable he is and how he needs more sleep. I work 7:30 to 5:30. I bring the baby with me. I leave the house to go to work 3 hours before my husband does. Every day. I take care of the baby full time, the only time he gets her is an hour or two at night for cuddles yet he's sooo tired. I wish he would wake up earlier, complain less, appreciate what he has. He thinks he has it so hard but really he's one of the laziest, whiniest men I know.
/ end vent
Update: I went to target and got: St. John's wort, vitamin C, fish oil, men's one a day as well as melatonin. I also got some Epsom salt, a head massager and a back massager. Hopefully these, in addition to better diet exercise and communication, will help get him out of this funk.
Does he have sleep apnea? He should really speek to his doctor and see if there is a physical reason he's do tired.
February 18, 2013 at 8:13 AM
You must have never been diagnosed with clinical depression. Easier said than done. It takes a lot to admit when you are depressed and finally seek help. She vowed to support him during sickness and in health. Emasculating him isn't going to fix the situation.
Now this is uncalled for. I would be disgusted as hell too. If he is depressed he needs to seek treatment, not sit around and whine about everything.
Maybe he suffers from depression. What a bitch, you are.
I had to have a talk with my Dh about this recently. He's always sick tired or plain stressed about everything. I told him he is constantly feeling sorry for himself and its very draining on me. He was a little hurt I was basically calling him a whiny little bitch but he's trying to do better now that he knows how I feel.