Mom Confessions
He is such a big baby. No where near the real man I thought he was. He works 5 days a week from 10:30 to 7, has it so easy managing a little sandwich shop, yet he cries constantly about how miserable he is and how he needs more sleep. I work 7:30 to 5:30. I bring the baby with me. I leave the house to go to work 3 hours before my husband does. Every day. I take care of the baby full time, the only time he gets her is an hour or two at night for cuddles yet he's sooo tired. I wish he would wake up earlier, complain less, appreciate what he has. He thinks he has it so hard but really he's one of the laziest, whiniest men I know.
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Update: I went to target and got: St. John's wort, vitamin C, fish oil, men's one a day as well as melatonin. I also got some Epsom salt, a head massager and a back massager. Hopefully these, in addition to better diet exercise and communication, will help get him out of this funk.
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Update: I went to target and got: St. John's wort, vitamin C, fish oil, men's one a day as well as melatonin. I also got some Epsom salt, a head massager and a back massager. Hopefully these, in addition to better diet exercise and communication, will help get him out of this funk.
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maybe you should talk to him, bc your just whinning & complaining here.
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Tell him all that, it won't change otherwise. -
Did you not know who/what he was when you married him?
Either accept him as he is, or don't (and leave him). You can't change him.
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Lol I have talked to him!! He just throws a huge temper tantrum instead of actually communicating with me.
Quoting Anonymous:
maybe you should talk to him, bc your just whinning & complaining here. -
Maybe he suffers from depression. What a bitch, you are.
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Maybe he hates his job and is heading towards depression. I mean, did he really want to grow up and manage a sandwich shop?
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I tell him this all the time and he just whines he's sooo tired. I haven't slept since I was pregnant but I don't make the world revolve around my exhaustion do I !!!
Quoting jbirdsladie27:
Tell him all that, it won't change otherwise. -
Does he have depression? I know if I hated my job and had little support at home I wouldn't be a fun person to be around.
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I may be at bitch but at least I get my shit done without crying about it
Quoting Anonymous:
Maybe he suffers from depression. What a bitch, you are. -
Marriage is not a competition of who has it hardest....
Have you actually sat down and spoken with your husband about how you feel? If you speak with him non-defensively ( difficult, I know) you might make him understand how you feel.