Mom Confessions
Last month my mil called my husband at night saying the people hacked her home alarm and were on the intercom saying they were going to kill her and make her have a heart attack. Thinking that someone was bothering her I called the cops to get them to check it out and when the cops get there, there is nothing or no one there. She then tells my husband that the voices are talking to her again and repeating everything that my husband is saying into the phone. Yeah, the voices were in her head.
Fast forward about 2 weeks, she calls one of my bil's saying the androids are under her house and digging tunnels for cars and 2 different gangs called the "pickers" and "tasers". My bil gets worried and calls her best friend to go and check on her (he lives in VA and had to drive down to where the lives a few hours away). Best friend gets there and mil snaps and attacks her, beats the hell out of her and she gets arrested and put in the psych ward for the night. A bunch of other shit happened and in a series of unfortunately events she is now here with us and our 3 kids. A 3 year old and 7 month and twins.
She isn't taking her meds, dh won't ask her about it because he knows she will lie and she has been saying some crazy bull shit. Lets begin...she was tased by the cia, the androids fell in love with her . She ruined my twins schedule..rearranged my house without asking..high voltage from all of our high tech equipment (tv, cell phones, computer) is letting the androids spy on us..my 3 year old got the flu shot at the end of October and she said that the electro magnetic fields with the flu shot has given my 7 month old girl the cold she picked up 2 days ago..she whispers to the voices in her head all day and thinks the cops are going to hide her underground..
it all sounds funny, but she is starting to get aggressive again. I will not leave her alone with my children ever. Now she is asking to stay until may and dh is actually considering it! I am with this woman 24/7, my life has completely been turned upside down and she micro manages everything i do. She lies about taking her pills, walks around my house in the middle of the night talking to herself, wakes up my kids, she got pissed at me today cause I wasn't understanding what she was saying about high voltage whatever.
I would never in a million years make my husband choose us or his mom and I really do want her to get better, but if she stays here longer than past the 1st of march I am taking the kids and staying somewhere else in town until she is gone. It had only been 5 days she has been here and I am about to crack.
Sorry this is so long. I just needed to vent out. But trust me, there is an ass ton more crazy shit she does that I didn't even post about. My husband really is trying his best, he just refuses to see how bad off she is. He just tells her " to grow up and to quit making up stories". It's not a good time in our normally happy home right now :(
Sorry if there are any typos. It's 240 am here and I am exhausted.
Fast forward about 2 weeks, she calls one of my bil's saying the androids are under her house and digging tunnels for cars and 2 different gangs called the "pickers" and "tasers". My bil gets worried and calls her best friend to go and check on her (he lives in VA and had to drive down to where the lives a few hours away). Best friend gets there and mil snaps and attacks her, beats the hell out of her and she gets arrested and put in the psych ward for the night. A bunch of other shit happened and in a series of unfortunately events she is now here with us and our 3 kids. A 3 year old and 7 month and twins.
She isn't taking her meds, dh won't ask her about it because he knows she will lie and she has been saying some crazy bull shit. Lets begin...she was tased by the cia, the androids fell in love with her . She ruined my twins schedule..rearranged my house without asking..high voltage from all of our high tech equipment (tv, cell phones, computer) is letting the androids spy on us..my 3 year old got the flu shot at the end of October and she said that the electro magnetic fields with the flu shot has given my 7 month old girl the cold she picked up 2 days ago..she whispers to the voices in her head all day and thinks the cops are going to hide her underground..
it all sounds funny, but she is starting to get aggressive again. I will not leave her alone with my children ever. Now she is asking to stay until may and dh is actually considering it! I am with this woman 24/7, my life has completely been turned upside down and she micro manages everything i do. She lies about taking her pills, walks around my house in the middle of the night talking to herself, wakes up my kids, she got pissed at me today cause I wasn't understanding what she was saying about high voltage whatever.
I would never in a million years make my husband choose us or his mom and I really do want her to get better, but if she stays here longer than past the 1st of march I am taking the kids and staying somewhere else in town until she is gone. It had only been 5 days she has been here and I am about to crack.
Sorry this is so long. I just needed to vent out. But trust me, there is an ass ton more crazy shit she does that I didn't even post about. My husband really is trying his best, he just refuses to see how bad off she is. He just tells her " to grow up and to quit making up stories". It's not a good time in our normally happy home right now :(
Sorry if there are any typos. It's 240 am here and I am exhausted.
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Oh and right now she is laughing at nothing in the bedroom and talking to herself...
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She needs to go back to the psych ward. If she is starting to get aggressive then she def doesn't need to be around the kids. Tell your husband that. What's going to happen if she hurts one of the kids? Sorry that you have to go through all this.
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Get her out of the house before we hear your family on the news.
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I'm all for helping family, but not when it puts everyone else in danger. I think you should talk to your husband and get his mom the help she needs and soon - yesterday would be good.
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Oh no. Your dh needs to understand that for the safety of your children and you she should be institutionalized until she becomes compliant with her medication. She obviously isn't going to get better otherwise because she's not taking her medication. Anyone with a history of physical assault and mental illness would never be in my home if i knew they werent compliant with medication. -
I was thinking this was a typical MIL rant but she is literally crazy! You have a right to tell your husband that it's not safe or your responsibility to take care of her. She needs serious help that you can not give her and she needs to go. Your stress level with three kids is a Enough. Hugs:) -
WOW......Sorry BUT her Behind would be back in the hospital or DH can take his mom and go stay in hotel. NO Way would that woman be in the same house with my children especially since she is aggressive and beats people...........
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She should not be around your kids! Wayyyy to risky. U have to convince your dh. Good luck! :/
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I grew up with a crazy mother we were constantly having to put her in the mental hospital she never took her pills like she was supposed to. I feel your pain. Get her out of your house before she hurts you and do not ever leave the kids alone with her!
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Yea this,lol!!
Quoting jakesmom323:
I was thinking this was a typical MIL rant but she is literally crazy! You have a right to tell your husband that it's not safe or your responsibility to take care of her. She needs serious help that you can not give her and she needs to go. Your stress level with three kids is a Enough. Hugs:)