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Wtf DH. Stop trying to control me.
by Anonymous
February 8, 2013 at 11:58 PM

Tonight we were both starving so we were going to stop and get something to eat. He asked "What do you want?" I told him where *I* wanted, which was literally RIGHT beside where we were anyway. He said "Hell no, we're not getting there. That place sucks." Keep in mind it was for *me.* Not him. Then he wanted me to pick between two other places, so slightly annoyed, I said "Pizza, I guess." because that was one of his options. This was after I told him I really didn't want pizza because 1. We have ate it too much for me. He wants it too much, and we just had it a week ago and 2. I have horrible constipation issues, and I really did not feel like dealing with all of that cheese and starch messing me up and causing gas to accumulate in my stomach, and not being able to use the bathroom. 

So he heard the annoyance in my voice and while AT THE WINDOW to order, he said well what do you want? I said "I already told you. Why are you asking me again. You asked me what I wanted. I told you. You told me no." He orders the pizza, then we run some errands. I try to eat it, but really. I need a break from it! It's just...ugh.. Greasy and not in the mood, so I just put it down, and said "I will just eat when we get home." He's like "Ohhh god." I say "Oh, no. Don't act like this was me. You asked me what I wanted then you decided FOR me." His excuse was "Well because I know it sucks." I said "YOU are not the one eating it. I am. Why does YOUR opinion matter on what I eat?" 

So he goes and drives to the other side of the city to ANOTHER place he thought I would want, and I am like "Why are you going here? You said earlier we weren't going over here because it's too far, and I don't want anything here." He just keeps on, and I said "No. I really don't want anything here. It's too far, and there's nothing I want." We go there, and I just get something anyway, and of course I am pissed off by them. I mean, why all of this unnecessary bull shit?! Why does he have to start shit, or try and dictate things for me? He complicated the whole night because he was more concerned over HIS OWN thoughts than MINE. Holy fuck, I am so annoyed. It's fucking food. Don't ASK me what I want just to tell me no then do all this shit. 

The sad thing is? We've been arguing about him doing things like this all last year! Wtf does he not get?!

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  • mamaof2boys816
    February 9, 2013 at 12:08 AM

    *hugs* momma i feel my husbends being a dick right now because i need to do everything while he tells me what im going to do >.<

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    February 9, 2013 at 12:09 AM

    Well, we were already gone from home and wouldn't be back for a while, but I typically do make dinner most of the time.

    Quoting audreesmama:

    ...make dinner at home, problem solved. If he doesn't want to eat it, he can make his own food.


  • audreesmama
    February 9, 2013 at 12:10 AM
    Make dinner beforehand.

    Honestly, if he is this controlling about food, I'm sure he's a peach to live with.


    Quoting Anonymous:

    Well, we were already gone from home and wouldn't be back for a while, but I typically do make dinner most of the time.

    Quoting audreesmama:

    ...make dinner at home, problem solved. If he doesn't want to eat it, he can make his own food.



  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    February 9, 2013 at 12:13 AM
    Wow! You both sound annoying as hell!
  • Sanctimommy
    February 9, 2013 at 12:14 AM

    I'm revising your post for clarity:

    "DH asked where I wanted to get take out this evening. I told him 'Restaurant A'. But he said he wouldn't get take out for me there because he doesn't like their food.  I ended up having to eat food that I did not want because DH thinks I ought to want it and thinks I shouldn't eat food he doesn't like. And he's pissed at me for not eating what he wanted me to eat."

    Is that what happened?


  • daughteroftruth
    February 9, 2013 at 12:15 AM

    you thought.. thats could be part of the problem.  What you say and how you say it, may not be the way he interprets it.  How long have you been married?

    Quoting Anonymous:

    I thought I was pretty clear in what I wanted and how I felt. *Shrug*

    Quoting Anonymous:

    Wow. Communication is key.



  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    February 9, 2013 at 12:17 AM
    This sounds like the stupidest argument ever.

    Sounds like both of you need to chill. Maybe grow up a little.
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    February 9, 2013 at 12:17 AM

    We didn't have anything to make for dinner. Hence the reason we were starving. Lol. We were on our way to get groceries and had to do some other things.

    Quoting audreesmama:

    Make dinner beforehand.

    Honestly, if he is this controlling about food, I'm sure he's a peach to live with.


    Quoting Anonymous:

    Well, we were already gone from home and wouldn't be back for a while, but I typically do make dinner most of the time.

    Quoting audreesmama:

    ...make dinner at home, problem solved. If he doesn't want to eat it, he can make his own food.




  • NewMamaBoo
    February 9, 2013 at 12:17 AM

    What was the food you wanted that he said was gross? How rude. Seriously I'd be more than annoyed myself

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    February 9, 2013 at 12:19 AM

    It IS stupid, but I fail to see where I need to grow up. Last time I checked, I did the right thing. I was clear spoken about what I wanted, and he kept going against everything I said after ASKING me. This has been a HABITUAL problem of his for the last year or more, so if my being angry of this repetitive bull shit means I need to grow up, then so be it, I guess.

    Quoting Anonymous:

    This sounds like the stupidest argument ever.

    Sounds like both of you need to chill. Maybe grow up a little.


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