I was so wrong about his reaction (thank goodness) - he wasn't overcome with joy but he wasn't upset or angry. After I told him, he went outside to his workshop (the garage) and stay out there for about a half hour-- then he came inside, wrapped his arms around me, told me how much he loves me and assured me that everything will be okay
After the initial shock wore off, dare I say I'm excited about our future & our growing family :D
Thanks to all the ladies who had encouraging words - they are very much appreciated!!!
You will live. I had 4 children in 5 years on purpose. Of course, the closest mine are spaced is 5 days shy of 16 mos. apart. But, mothers the world over have had babies 12 mos. or less apart. You knew it could happen when you had sex, even if you used bc, so it shouldn't be that big of a shocker. Your husband doesn't have a right to be upset because he knew it was a possibilty, too.
My doctor told me i could have depo after 6 weeks that it wouldnt decrease my supply but i was after getting my obgyn to write me a 'script for 'micronor' its a 'mini pill'. You have to take it the exact same time everyday
Hon, it's not normal to wait 8 damn months to have sex after a baby. Sorry things were so complicated for you.
If enjoying sex with my husband of 9 years makes me trash, then so be it :P
Oh that's why you're acting like trash. You're one of the rutting animals I was thinking about.
Shoot, I had sex 2 weeks after our baby. I'm not BC because I'm breastfeeding and wasn't welling to risk my milk supply.
We had an oops and I could very well be pregnant again. That doesn't make me some whore. We have two kids 9 years apart so we know how to wait to have babies. Shit happens though!