Mom Confessions
Crap - DH is not going to be a happy camper :(
I was so wrong about his reaction (thank goodness) - he wasn't overcome with joy but he wasn't upset or angry. After I told him, he went outside to his workshop (the garage) and stay out there for about a half hour-- then he came inside, wrapped his arms around me, told me how much he loves me and assured me that everything will be okay
After the initial shock wore off, dare I say I'm excited about our future & our growing family :D
Thanks to all the ladies who had encouraging words - they are very much appreciated!!!
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Quoting Anonymous:
This pisses me off...I have been desperatly trying and you come here whining. Keep your legs fucking CLOSEDShut up. She has just as much right to complain as you do. It's not her fault you can't get pregnant.
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Yikes. Good luck. -
Damn you're cool. I'm sorry for being stupid to you. I should have been nicer about what I said and shouldn't have said some of that stuff at all.
Quoting Hot_Badonkadonk:
Hon, it's not normal to wait 8 damn months to have sex after a baby. Sorry things were so complicated for you.
If enjoying sex with my husband of 9 years makes me trash, then so be it :P
Quoting littlesippycup:
Oh that's why you're acting like trash. You're one of the rutting animals I was thinking about.
Quoting Hot_Badonkadonk:
Shoot, I had sex 2 weeks after our baby. I'm not BC because I'm breastfeeding and wasn't welling to risk my milk supply.
We had an oops and I could very well be pregnant again. That doesn't make me some whore. We have two kids 9 years apart so we know how to wait to have babies. Shit happens though!
Yall are some judgy bitches.
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congratz on becoming a mother again. your dh shouldn't be upset with you. it takes 2 to have a baby. you didn't do it alone. good luck in the coming year.
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You will live. I had 4 children in 5 years on purpose. Of course, the closest mine are spaced is 5 days shy of 16 mos. apart. But, mothers the world over have had babies 12 mos. or less apart. You knew it could happen when you had sex, even if you used bc, so it shouldn't be that big of a shocker. Your husband doesn't have a right to be upset because he knew it was a possibilty, too.
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My doctor told me i could have depo after 6 weeks that it wouldnt decrease my supply but i was after getting my obgyn to write me a 'script for 'micronor' its a 'mini pill'. You have to take it the exact same time everyday
Quoting Hot_Badonkadonk:
Hon, it's not normal to wait 8 damn months to have sex after a baby. Sorry things were so complicated for you.
If enjoying sex with my husband of 9 years makes me trash, then so be it :P
Quoting littlesippycup:
Oh that's why you're acting like trash. You're one of the rutting animals I was thinking about.
Quoting Hot_Badonkadonk:
Shoot, I had sex 2 weeks after our baby. I'm not BC because I'm breastfeeding and wasn't welling to risk my milk supply.
We had an oops and I could very well be pregnant again. That doesn't make me some whore. We have two kids 9 years apart so we know how to wait to have babies. Shit happens though!
Yall are some judgy bitches.
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Took 2 to tango not just 1 he has to accept his part in the baby making of that dance !!!! Oh btw congratulations !!!!
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SARCASM
Quoting livelaughlov26:
You're a bitch. She's married. You are a fucking idiot.
Quoting midjet117:
Shoulda kept your legs closed then!!
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Do u comprehend sarcasm? No? Oh well sucks for ya.
Quoting Anonymous:
Do you close your legs for your husband?
No?
Then stfu.
Quoting midjet117:
Shoulda kept your legs closed then!!
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Oh go find a bridge & jump!
Your problems are just that YOURS!!!
Don't put your shit on me -- it's my fault your infertile ass can't get pregnant - I don't think so!!
You read the title - if it rubbed you the wrong way WHY THE HELL DID YOU OPEN IT!!!
Quoting Anonymous:
This pisses me off...I have been desperatly trying and you come here whining. Keep your legs fucking CLOSED