My ex just called me to tell me his dad passed away. He was crying on the phone to me. I felt nothing for him. Nothing. I had told him (the last time he screwed me over) that there would be times that he would need me and I was no longer there for him. He has screwed me over more ways than I ever thought possible, he has hurt my kids, and he has just been a huge disappointment over all. I seriously felt nothing for him. It almost surprised me because typically I really feel for people and hate to see or hear people cry. I am highly affected by the emotions of others. There was absolutely nothing.
He pretty much had to let me know. He wants me to tell the kids. He will want me to take them to the funeral because he won't have a way to transport them. At some point, he will probably ask me for money or a place to stay which will not happen at this point.
Good. That's why he's your ex. He still obviously cares for you, or else wouldn't have bothered you. Sad.