I don't know how this has gotten so out of hand. My husband and I have been trying for over a year. I've been taking some magic little pills to help things along for the past 4 months. I had a miscarriage 2 months ago.
Two weeks ago I was excited to tell my husband that I bought his favorite ice cream and I came up to him all smiles and said "guess what?"
He grabbed me and hugged me. He was so happy, because he assumed we were pregnant again. I don't know what came over me but I said that I was. I think I was secretly hoping that in a few days when I went to test, I actually would be, but I'm not.
We said we weren't going to tell anyone yet, but he blabbed to a couple of my friends husbands and now we are supposed to be telling our family on valentine's day.
How did I let it get so out of hand. I didn't mean to lie and I didn't know it would get so big so fast. I told him that we have an appointment next week for an ultrasound.
Do I just fake another miscarriage at this point? I really don't know what else to do to save face.
I would tell him the truth but if you are not brave enough to do that, say it was a false positive and you were scared to tell him becuase you didn't want to hurt his feelings. DO NOT say it was a miscarriage and do not try and pretend you are still pregnant. That's just plain crazy.