My husband was drunk last night and he forced himself on me. I'm on my monthly so I told him no but he held me down and then he just went to sleep while I layed there crying. He told me sorry this morning but said he didn't remember doing it. :(
Thank you everyone. I feel so mad!!! I never thought he would do this to me.
Are you serious? If I tell my husband no sweetie not tonight you bet your ass he better turn the fuck over and go to sleep! Rape is rape and NO IS NO!! There are some days that I just don't want to have sex!! It's my RIGHT to say no! Just because we're married doesn't mean he can have sex with me any time he wants! And we have a wondeful marriage but there are just some times I don't want sex!! Seriously you're a raging asshole if you think it's ok that a husband FORCES himself on his wife because she happens to say NO!
I dont see how a husband can honestly rape his wife. Do you have a bad marriage? If your marriage is good, sex life is good, why wouldnt you be willing? I would doubt it is rape.
Hon, is this the first time any kind of abuse has happened? My ex would rape me and abuse me in other ways, apologize, and keep doing the same things over an over til he no longer saw the need for apology. He tried to apologize the day I left him, but I stayed gone this time and have no regrets.
Im sorry but my husband would have pain that he would remember the next morning. But when I say no, its not because of my period, I don't have one( not that that isn't a valid reason . it is) But out of the two of us, me and my DH. I am the one with a tendency towards violence.