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Am I the only one who NEEDS their man?
January 31, 2013 at 4:09 PM
I was chit chatting on another post about my dependency or need for my bf, that he is why my life is so amazing. He brings out the best in me, he is the reason I'm a better person. He saved me basically, I was going down a horrible path. because he didn't put up with my lies or being a drunk, he didn't let me play head games or mess around on him. I had never had someone love me so much that if i cheated on them would actually care. Sssoooo thoughts....

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  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    January 31, 2013 at 4:10 PM

    Immature love: I love you because I need you

    Mature love: I love you because I want/choose you

    I don't need my husband. I choose him. I want him.

  • jupiter5
    January 31, 2013 at 4:10 PM

    thats awesome, the best partnerships are the ones that make you want to be better

  • Acid
    by Acid
    January 31, 2013 at 4:11 PM

    I don't own him, so he isn't my man.  But, I don't NEED him either. 

    I survived before I met him, and, knock on wood, if something happens to him, I'll be able to survive again.

  • styler7
    by styler7
    January 31, 2013 at 4:11 PM

    If I didn't 'need' my husband, we wouldn't have gotten married :)

  • AmyL3469
    January 31, 2013 at 4:11 PM

    I don't need anyone but my kids. I chose my husband. He chose me. We don't NEED each other.

  • -_-
    by -_-
    January 31, 2013 at 4:11 PM
    I don't need him in the sense you're talking about. He doesn't make me who I am. I do that. I need him like I need coffee and chocolate.
  • mommamaggi
    January 31, 2013 at 4:12 PM

    We all need different people at different times in our lives. Sounds like you found someone that makes you want to be a better person, that's not a bad thing. It's only bad if you would revert back to your old self if he was gone for some reason.

  • Groove
    by Groove
    January 31, 2013 at 4:12 PM
    I'm w everyone else. I CHOSE my bf. If we were to break up, I would pick up the pieces and go on. I don't NEED anyone other than my children.
  • alexsmomaubrys2
    January 31, 2013 at 4:13 PM

    I think that you need to depend on yourself for your own happiness. Emotional dependency on another person is dangerous.

  • sampson200
    January 31, 2013 at 4:13 PM

    I call my husband my 'heart's blood'.

    I need him like I need oxygen. I was almost 30 years to find him, and it was well worth it.

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