Do what you like and don't strive for perfection. That's a sure way to make your day stressful.
It's going to be pretty and wonderful even if one table has a table cloth one shade off or a flower is wilted. I promise you that you will remember the overall feel of the day rather than the details so let that guide you. I LOVED my wedding day and it was because early on I decided not to sweat the small stuff.
People still talk about how great it was too so it was memorable even if everything wasn't perfect.
I wouldn't know anyway cause I didn't overthink it and my memories are not marred by anything.
The dress is cute! I used the myweddingday.com
Ourweddingday.com and theknot.com
Well i used ourweddingday.com...dh was using theknot (he was in Iraq when we started planning and somehow we were both using sites lol). I didnt have my church wedding because something ALWAYS comes up when we start planning, like we were supposed to have the ceremony in 2011..i got preggers with the baby. but I still have my plans to renew our vows:)