I left him but we might get back together for the reasons above. Its very confusing and scarey to go through this. I don't want to be back with him, but I do love him and maybe he will change. Plus it is so nice to not have to worry so much about how I'm going to pay the rent and buy food.
I have been with my hubby for 24 years. We got married super young and had kids right away! I loved him, but had my doubts back then if the was the right one for me. I honestly tried to make it work. But things have really gone downhill over the past 10 years and I'm not so sure if we will last forever. I mainly stayed for the sake of our kids, money, and because I have had some mental health issues (anxiety, depression) that have been pretty bad at times!! I still love him somewhat, but my feelings aren't as strong because he hasn't been treating me right for the past couple of years. Now that our kids are grown, I am really considering parting ways once I get myself established with work, so that I can stand on my own two feet. What are your reasons?