Mom Confessions
- Only group members can vote in this poll.
- 12% - a) for money/financial security
- 11% - b) for the kids - don't want to break up the home
- 1% - c) because you are afraid to be alone
- 11% - d) you still kinda love him and hope that things will change for the better
- 4% - e) because of your religious beliefs (don't believe in divorce)
- 0% - f) you have serious health issues
- 58% - g) several of the above
Replies
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all but e & f.
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my child and 4 stepkids.
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I couldn't leave of I wanted to
None of these reasons
But I don't want to -
I left him but we might get back together for the reasons above. Its very confusing and scarey to go through this. I don't want to be back with him, but I do love him and maybe he will change. Plus it is so nice to not have to worry so much about how I'm going to pay the rent and buy food.
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Money, the kids, I miss us maybe we can fix it but at the momment I don't want to.
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interestingggggggggggg
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I have been with my hubby for 24 years. We got married super young and had kids right away! I loved him, but had my doubts back then if the was the right one for me. I honestly tried to make it work. But things have really gone downhill over the past 10 years and I'm not so sure if we will last forever. I mainly stayed for the sake of our kids, money, and because I have had some mental health issues (anxiety, depression) that have been pretty bad at times!! I still love him somewhat, but my feelings aren't as strong because he hasn't been treating me right for the past couple of years. Now that our kids are grown, I am really considering parting ways once I get myself established with work, so that I can stand on my own two feet. What are your reasons?
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I'm not but bump for answers, I'm very curious to see the results and can understand all of them.
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I stayed because, mistakenly I believed child from 2 parent homes fared better.
Then I realized the fighting was doing more damage than than the possible good of staying together.
Truth be told, EX-, I and the kids are much happier since the divorce.
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a,b & d.
If and when I am able to financially, I'll overcome the other two. My kids are starting to realize that somethings not right & that breaks my heart. We're all much happier when he's not here.