Mom Confessions
DF likes to tell me how perfect I am and it's starting to really get to me. I am NOT by ANY means perfect. I am human. I have my flaws and I make mistakes.
It has started affecting our relationship. Any time I make a mistake or my flaws are visible, he starts to withdraw and it's getting on my nerve.
Don't put me on a damn pedestal and you wouldn't be dissapointed when you realize I am no a goddess, but only human.
(It is starting to get better because I keep talking to him about it.)
- Only group members can vote in this poll.
- 16% - Yes and I love it.
- 6% - Yes, but it annoys me.
- 41% - No and I'm glad.
- 24% - No, but I wish he would.
- 10% - Other because there always is.
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I put other because he doesn't put me on one but every now and then it would be kind of nice. -
Depends on the day. Most of the time I'm pretty spoiled, and always well taken care of. He comes home with flowers and gifts on a whim, and I know he loves me more than anything. But no relationship would be complete without a few arguments now and then -
I would never put anyone on a pedestal, just because no one deserves that.
I will be nice to him and do things for him and spoil him and he does the same to me, but I still do not expect him to be perfect.
Quoting Anonymous:
I put other because he doesn't put me on one but every now and then it would be kind of nice. -
Right, but he doesn't expect you to be perfect does he?
Quoting XJetX:
Depends on the day. Most of the time I'm pretty spoiled, and always well taken care of. He comes home with flowers and gifts on a whim, and I know he loves me more than anything. But no relationship would be complete without a few arguments now and then -
I've been told that I can't do anything right. I mean nothing. It's seriously affecting our relationship
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That's emotional abuse sweetie :(
Quoting Anonymous:
I've been told that I can't do anything right. I mean nothing. It's seriously affecting our relationship
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It's an affection thing! They say it to make you feel good and show you they appreciate everything you do for them :) I used to deny everything he told me.. like "You are So much more beautiful than and woman I've ever seen" or "You are so perfect I don't know what I'd do without you"... Until one day he said. "You know, What I am saying is true. Maybe not to someone else but for me you are perfect and to me you are beautiful.. If you don't start accepting it I will stop saying it. And you know you would miss it" So now I just thank him and give him hugs and kisses xD Because it's true.
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Definitely someone you Don't need to be wasting your time on :/ GL hun.
Quoting Anonymous:
I've been told that I can't do anything right. I mean nothing. It's seriously affecting our relationship
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If he did that it would be fine.
But he says I am perfect and when I do anything "wrong" he gets upset and starts to withdraw.
Quoting Sammi20:
It's an affection thing! They say it to make you feel good and show you they appreciate everything you do for them :) I used to deny everything he told me.. like "You are So much more beautiful than and woman I've ever seen" or "You are so perfect I don't know what I'd do without you"... Until one day he said. "You know, What I am saying is true. Maybe not to someone else but for me you are perfect and to me you are beautiful.. If you don't start accepting it I will stop saying it. And you know you would miss it" So now I just thank him and give him hugs and kisses xD Because it's true.
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That is emotional abuse. See a counciler or leave him. Seriously, no one deserves that.
Quoting Anonymous:
I've been told that I can't do anything right. I mean nothing. It's seriously affecting our relationship