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S/O: Can you Ever Know for Sure Spouse Won't Cheat?
by Anonymous
January 28, 2013 at 9:40 AM

Is it possible to know for sure your spouse won't cheat?  I'm talking literally know s/he won't, not faith/trust that s/he won't.

I won't give my opinion, as I don't want to sway the results.

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  • notjstasocermom
    January 28, 2013 at 9:40 AM

    IMO yes, be careful about who you marry. Know what kind of man he is.

  • Not_A_Native
    January 28, 2013 at 9:42 AM

    Not 100% - because you never know another person that well.  But, I will say my chances are almost 100% that he won't.  He's honorable, in every sense of the word.  Returns small amount of change if he got too much.  Always does the "right thing" even if it's painful.

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    January 28, 2013 at 9:42 AM



    Quoting notjstasocermom:

    IMO yes, be careful about who you marry. Know what kind of man he is.


    Sorry, I realized my title was confusing, so I edited it.  Not sure if you'd change your answer.

  • TairyHesticle
    January 28, 2013 at 9:43 AM
    I would love to say yes, but in reality, nothing can be certain and things can change.
  • jillbailey26
    January 28, 2013 at 9:43 AM

    I knew my husband for 7 years before we got married.  I've known him through all of his relationships.  Based on past and current behavior, he's not the type to cheat.  He's loyal and faithful.  I wouldn't have married him if he wasn't.

  • teeliner
    January 28, 2013 at 9:43 AM

    Nope....Who would have thought after 23 years & all we "survived" that he would cheat & leave us. He traded us in for a younger version. 

  • Beautiful31mom
    January 28, 2013 at 9:44 AM

    yes, My husband has very high values and morals and respects me as his wife, and I know he will not cheat.

  • TeamTARDIS
    January 28, 2013 at 9:45 AM
    Yes. Some people are trust worthy and won't break their vows.
    My DH would never cheat and I would never cheat.
  • notjstasocermom
    January 28, 2013 at 9:45 AM



    Quoting Anonymous:



    Quoting notjstasocermom:

    IMO yes, be careful about who you marry. Know what kind of man he is.


    Sorry, I realized my title was confusing, so I edited it.  Not sure if you'd change your answer.


    no I'm not confused. I know what the question was.

  • notjstanothrmom
    January 28, 2013 at 9:45 AM

    I think it is. There are some people that are just 100% against it and would NEVER in a million years do something like that. They do exist.

    I won't say that my SO would never cheat but he HATES the concept of cheating and he thinks it's gross. I don't think he would ever cheat... but I am not naive either and I do believe it could happen.

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