Mom Confessions
Ok so DF and I got stationed to a new place. He has a few friends here. I have none.
About a month ago DF got a DUI and it got spread throughout the spouses through his "best friends" wife. She gossiped. Yadda yadda yadda.
Now I'm here. I want to go and get my hair cut. I am on the bases spouses fb page. I wanted to ask if anyone had a certain person they went to. I wanted reccomendations . I don't want to go to someone and get my hair effed up.
Well that fired him up. He yelled at me and said I shouldn't be asking them for anything. They spread lies about him and whatever.
This is how I see it. HIS friends' wife talked crap about him. She spread shit. He has to deal with it. NOW I can't make friendly with the other military wives CAUSE HE SAID SO. This is no fair. I wanted to ask a simple question. I just want a decent hairdresser.
I feel this is just ridiculous but he went to bed and slammed shit along the way. I moved across the country to be with him. WTF????
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It's to early for popcorn.
Coffee anyone????? -
He's being an ass. Its not your fault he got a DUI. -
Hazelnut mocha please. -
Um.... -
The DUI isn't what is bothering me. It's just his whole mentality of "Well I'f I can't do it then you can't" or making me feel guilty.
Quoting Ninjascreenname:
He's being an ass. Its not your fault he got a DUI. -
He fucked up, not you. You shouldn't be punished because people gossiped about something that happened to be true. -
He's the one that messed up not you and it's not like they made something up because he actually got a dui.
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Um what? Unless you have something constructive to contribute then move on.
Quoting 3lilmonsters88:
Um.... -
I would just wait for it to blow over in then im sure it will be just fine im sure he's just embarrassed.. -
move back...unless you like this treatment, it's here to stay, sadly...