SO is out of town for work. Won't be back for at least a week. My neighbor wants me to go out with her Saturday to a dj/karaoke party in a town 30 minutes away. She is willing to pay her 18 year old niece to stay with my kids, buy my drinks, and get the hotel room.
So I asked SO if I could go. He said " why are you asking, you are grown, kids are taking care of, go". I just feel it would be disrespectful of me to go without making sure he was OK with it.
Would you ask in this situation, or just go?
by MrsDavidB25January 25 at 12:15 AM
I don't ask but I would mention it first and see his reaction to me going out before I make up my mind.
by RLT2January 25 at 12:16 AM
I wouldn't ask, I would inform him and discuss it with him.
by AnonymousJanuary 25 at 12:17 AM
I do ask my husband if we have anything going on. If not, I go
by mcwife86January 25 at 12:17 AM
id ask too. id want to make sure he was comfortable with me going out. i wouldn't just go without running it by him.
by TranquilMindJanuary 25 at 12:18 AM
I don't "ask", but I certainly mention it to make sure we have no conflicts.
by ihave1January 25 at 12:18 AM
cant stand when people do that, just go. As long has the kid/s are taken care of
January 25 at 12:18 AM
um, I dont necessarily ask, but I plan ahead and make sure to tell dh details. its just courtesy.
by anon1986EastJanuary 25 at 12:18 AM
I never ask but I do inform my husband of things I intend to do, mostly so he just knows where I am.