I had an emotional affair Online and through texts with my ex (child father). ( I told him about my problems and my emotions and also told him I missed him. He would always ask for sex, but I never did. I ignored it.) admitted it to dh, admitted I was an idiot and it was wrong, and apoligized. I told him that he did not make me feel loved or wanted or cared about. It's not an excuse, but he wanted an explanation. Later, I found out that he had an affair online and on his phone, and the woman had sent pics off herself, in clothes, and a bikini, and he saved the pictures on the computer, told me they were a friends that used the computer. (telling eachother they love eachother and are always in their heart, they called eachother bear something) He told me it was because he was sad about what happened, and because we were arguing a lot.. Now we have both got past it, and are happy, and trying to work things out for us and our girls. Hopefully everything works out. We both admit we were wrong, (although he blames me a little for why he did it.) and want to try to save or marriage. We think we can. This it's my confession.