My SO and I agreed that I get a job at nights. We need the extra money and I wanted to get out of the house for a bit. So I started work two weeks ago and have had one night off since I started. It's been crazy. I come home at around 12:30 am every night. I get up at 6 am with the kids and get DS off to school. I am so overwhelmed and SO doesn't help around the house. So I get home and have to clean. I am angry and just can not stand him right now. Vent over
Have you actually talked to him about it? You guys need to sit down and talk about it. Maybe it just hasn't occurred to him that he needs to help out yet. Just let him now that you can't work and do all the cleaning, he needs to help out some around the house too.