I see a lot around here when a woman complains about a husband cheating on them or leaving them for another woman, and postic pics of the chick saying I've got to be prettier than her right? A lot of people comment something to the extent of "we'll she must have a better personality than you " or " looks aren't always everything she may have a great personality!" What I'm wondering is what kind of personality can a woman have if she is so disrespectful of another persons relationship that she would ruin it?
Why are we always blaming the other woman? Sometimes the man tells them there is no other woman. Its the cheating spouse that is at fault, not the other woman.
January 12, 2013 at 11:51 PM
I think there's more to it than that. I've known a few women who have been with married men and one of them was torn as to what to do. He came into her life when she was most vulnerable and promised her a better life but then never left his wife. By then, she had already fallen hard and she had become really submissive to him. It was sad. The sad part is, people looked at her as if she was a terrible person, but in truth, if it had come down to it, she would have died for that asshole and his wife just for the sheer fact that she loved him and she was sure he loved his wife because he refused to leave her. The things I heard that girl cry about. I ended up having to back out of the friendship because I couldn't stand seeing her kill herself slowly from the inside out over an asshole that was playing not only his wife, but a girl who had just came out of an abusive marriage right before he came along. It was terrible.