My son came out as gay a few weeks ago. I cannot help but feel disappointed. I won't have biological grandkids. When I gave birth to him I had a vision of how great his life will be, wife, kids etc. Now I cant help but think of how hard his life will be with unaccepting people and things. I just feel sad.
I still love him and treat him the same. I just feel sad. Like a part of they boy I knew was lost.
Mine our to young to be in that situation, but I'm sure its hard to feel that way about your son. Sometimes i dread when he starts school because i know his innocence will slowly diminish and i worry about being disappointed in choices he may make. Just love him and be there for him. I'm sure he knows what's he's up against. As long as he has your support those other voices will slowly mute out.
by Anonymous - Original Poster
January 11, 2013 at 9:02 PM
who says you won't have bio kids?
if he's male and likes males and my only child?
I mean I guess he could go invetro but ahhh its just not how I pictured it. I would still love the grandbabies if there are some unconditionally as I do him.