the exs brother.

[Anonymous]

I slept wiith him. Yep that is right him and his wife were separated and he came over one night to talk about things going on with the separation and we were drinking...one thing lead to another and well yea, you can guess the rest from there.

I found I am 9 weeks along last week...but he doesn't want it since him and his wife are working things out and getting back together and i can't afford to take care of another child at the moment...so I am going to talk to a gay couple I know who have been planning to try to adopt and give the baby up to them since I don't have the heart to go through with an abortion.

[Miss_Sheila]

wow but dont you think youll get attached to the baby once its born or throughout the pregnancy

[lullabylily]

Wow!  Tough Luck!

Hope you you can resolve your situation soon.  It would be tricky with the wife.

[TAG_ur_it]

well, all things considered, i think that is a great alternative. 

[Sassy762]

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting Miss_Sheila:

wow but dont you think youll get attached to the baby once its born or throughout the pregnancy

I am sure I will, it doesn't change the fact though that I am already a struggling single mother who really can't afford to raise another child alone. or the fact he wants nothing to do with the baby since he is working on getting his family back. So I figure giving the baby to a loving couple who can provide for the child is the next best alternative.

[Junesmommy18]

[laurag8707]

wow um good luck i commend (sp?) on giving the baby up for adoption instead of aborting that speaks volumes of someone being able to do that !

[Anonymous]

I hate the sentence "one thing led to another"

Good luck with the adoption

[adhaodd1child]

Wow good luck

[melissaaytes]

I agree!  Give the baby to a couple who are not able to have kids of their own!!!  I do not agree with abortion, not even a little bit!!

Quoting TAG_ur_it:

well, all things considered, i think that is a great alternative.