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What do you think? Is it wrong to pierce a baby's ears?
January 8, 2013 at 2:39 PM

Parents Who Pierce Their Baby's Ears Are Just Plain Cruel

Posted by The Stir Bloggers on January 8, 2013 

little earEarlier this morning, I came across a discussion over the argument of whether or not to pierce a baby's ears. A disgruntled reader wrote to the Dear Mary Ann column at the Pittsburgh Post Gazette voicing her opinion on the issue -- she thinks it's borderline child abuse.

And you know what? I think I have to agree with her on this one. Because piercing a baby girl's ears not only seems mean and cruel to me -- it also just seems so vain and unnecessary.

Here you have this perfect little angel who is sugar and spice and everything nice -- and you want to go pierce two tiny holes through her earlobes and cause her pain simply because you think she'll look cute in a pair of heart-shaped studs?

Yes, I know putting it that way sounds a little bit extreme, but it's a pretty accurate description. 

My mother took me to get my ears pierced when I was in the fourth grade, I believe -- and I still remember how bad it hurt when that piercing gun went through my skin. And I also remember what a pain it was to keep my earlobes clean and to turn the earrings every day so the holes wouldn't close up.

If it was that bad for a fourth grader (who willingly got her ears pierced), I can't even imagine what a drag having pierced ears must be for a baby.

And that brings us to the whole problem of ear pulling. Aren't parents afraid that their poor baby girls are going to reach up to itch the fresh wounds on their earlobes -- only to accidentally pull out the earring and hurt themselves further in the process? (It could happen.) Or what if they get infected?

I know it's fun to have a little girl and dress her up and all that, but piercing her ears before she even knows how to stand up just seems so ridiculous to me, in addition to being pretty inhumane.

Heck, it's bad enough when we have to take our babies to the doctor to get a shot, and that's necessary for their health. Why on earth would ANY parent subject their little one to having needles stuck in her for the sake of vanity?

What do you think? Is it wrong to pierce a baby's ears?

Replies

  • slayerslegacy
    January 8, 2013 at 2:40 PM
    No.
  • angie944
    January 8, 2013 at 2:41 PM

    I dont think it is wrong, but we havent pierced our daughters ears yet and she is 5.  We want to wait until she asks for them to be pierced.  

  • Not_A_Native
    January 8, 2013 at 2:42 PM

    Personally, I wouldn't do it, but that's because i"m lazy.  I told all mine they could get their ears pierced when they could take care of them by themselves.

    Taking care of a baby is hard enough, I wasn't going to add anything else to it.

  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1
    January 8, 2013 at 2:43 PM

    i see it daily i work at the mall its the parents own choice but personally i feel bad for the little ones who cry hysterically

  • KyrinM
    by KyrinM
    January 8, 2013 at 2:43 PM

    Yep, goes along with circumcision, their body, their decision.  Not old enough to make a decision, okay, we wait.  Very simple.

  • Dzyre1115
    January 8, 2013 at 2:43 PM
    I pierced my daughter's ears immediately following her first tetanus shot and we have no regrets, she loves having her ears pierced.
  • AngeLnChainZ
    January 8, 2013 at 2:43 PM

    Personally it's not something I would ever do.. But I am not going to judge anothers choice to do it for their child.

  • Hippie.Gypsy
    January 8, 2013 at 2:43 PM

    I think it is wrong, yes. Why? Because you are doing it without the informed consent of the individual.

    Now, I've had 11 piercings, some done multiples times because the hole closed up for one reason or another. And I had my ears pierced as a child (and multiple times since because my ears have a habit of closing if the jewelry is out for an extended period). So I am not against piercings in any way, shape or form... but I do believe it is the persons choice to make, and doing it to a baby, toddler, child is wrong IMO.

  • B1Bomber
    January 8, 2013 at 2:44 PM

    I wouldn't do it, but calling it child abuse is a little extreme.

  • UxorQuodMatris.
    January 8, 2013 at 2:44 PM
    I would never pierce a baby's ears. So unnecessary.

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