DH's ex wife is SUCH a bitch. I have tried to be the bigger person, I really have but I am way over this shit. I raised these boys for the last 7 years. She was absent from their lives for 10 years. Not 1 phone call, letter or visit in 10 FUCKING years and you want to come in here and play mommy? Where were you when they were babies and they needed you? Oh, that's right you were busy getting high and going in and out of prison. What about the sister they will never meet because you were arrested at 8 months pregnant, while high on cocaine, so the state took her and terminated your rights (not my DH's kid). Where were you when your bf molested those babies when they were just 2 and 3? You were there and you didn't protect your children. You skipped the state with said bf so he wouldn't get arrested. How was that taking care of your children? And now you want to come around after I already raised these children and tell me I have no rights? That all decisions on the kids is between you and my DH? Bitch, please! I was their mother, they call me mommy and you by your first name. I tended their wounds, made their dinner and listened to their problems. What the Hell did you do to deseve that title? Give birth? That doesn't make you anything! You have been back in their lives for 2 years and have only visited once. And called maybe 7 or 8 times.That's NOT good parenting, that's not parenting at all. Then after 12 years FINALLY agree to pay CS, then ignore my DH's calls. That is REAL classy. Thank God we live in Massachusetts where step parents rights were granted 4 years ago. I will see you in court!