B****, please!

[Mrs.Torres2566]

DH's ex wife is SUCH a bitch. I have tried to be the bigger person, I really have but I am way over this shit. I raised these boys for the last 7 years. She was absent from their lives for 10 years. Not 1 phone call, letter or visit in 10 FUCKING years and you want to come in here and play mommy? Where were you when they were babies and they needed you? Oh, that's right you were busy getting high and going in and out of prison. What about the sister they will never meet because you were arrested at 8 months pregnant, while high on cocaine, so the state took her and terminated your rights (not my DH's kid). Where were you when your bf molested those babies when they were just 2 and 3? You were there and you didn't protect your children. You skipped the state with said bf so he wouldn't get arrested. How was that taking care of your children? And now you want to come around after I already raised these children and tell me I have no rights? That all decisions on the kids is between you and my DH? Bitch, please! I was their mother, they call me mommy and you by your first name. I tended their wounds, made their dinner and listened to their problems. What the Hell did you do to deseve that title? Give birth? That doesn't make you anything! You have been back in their lives for 2 years and have only visited once. And called maybe 7 or 8 times.That's NOT good parenting, that's not parenting at all. Then after 12 years FINALLY agree to pay CS, then ignore my DH's calls. That is REAL classy. Thank God we live in Massachusetts where step parents rights were granted 4 years ago. I will see you in court!

[Anonymous]

 You have a strange siggy.

[Mrs.Torres2566]

Quoting Anonymous:

 You have a strange siggy.

Lol, ok.

[xanthian41691]

Your siggy makes me sad :( *hugs*

And also; good on you! She doesn't deserve to have anything to do with them if that's gonna be her attitude!

[littlesippycup]

=( At least they have you. I don't think your siggy is strange. That's sad and a long time to wait =( Good luck girl.

[Unoriginal.]

Can you not get her parental rights terminated due to abandonment?

[Mrs.Torres2566]

Quoting xanthian41691:

Your siggy makes me sad :( *hugs*

And also; good on you! She doesn't deserve to have anything to do with them if that's gonna be her attitude!

Aw, don't be sad mama, I am a strong woman and I can get through anything. But thank you! :)

[Mrs.Torres2566]

Quoting Unoriginal.:

Can you not get her parental rights terminated due to abandonment?

Yes. But DH and I didn't want to do that, but she is REALLY forcing my hand.

[pinkyheather]

at least I finally found out what TTC meant by your signature! lol

Good for you, she sounds like someone who doesn't deserve to see them much less have them call her mommy. You're their mommy and they know it. 

[Mrs.Torres2566]

Quoting littlesippycup:

=( At least they have you. I don't think your siggy is strange. That's sad and a long time to wait =( Good luck girl.

Thanks. :)

[Mrs.Torres2566]

Quoting pinkyheather:

at least I finally found out what TTC meant by your signature! lol

Good for you, she sounds like someone who doesn't deserve to see them much less have them call her mommy. You're their mommy and they know it. 

They do, and I love them with my whole heart.