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*UPDATE FROM PARENTS* Is it irresponsible for parents to let their baby ride a Roomba?
January 3, 2013 at 11:56 AM

Parents Who Put Baby on Spinning Vacuum Need an Infant Safety Refresher Course (VIDEO)

Posted by Mary Fischer on January 3, 2013 

baby on roomba

You know those little circular Roomba vacuums that scoot back and forth across your floors to clean them up so you don't have to do it manually? Yeah, they're pretty cool, and they're major time savers.

But (call me crazy) -- something tells me they aren't supposed to be used as a mode of transportation for infants.

The parents of a baby girl named Aria thought it would be cute and funny to sit her down on top of their Roomba and let her take a spin around the living room and help tidy up the pine needles left over by their Christmas tree. Yes -- they let their baby ride their Roomba.

And of course, they caught the whole thing on video. Sure, it's kind of cute. But I couldn't help but gasp and want to hide my eyes throughout the whole thing. Watch the clip below, and then we'll discuss my paranoia.

 

OMG! Um, can you say dangerous -- not to mention pretty darn stupid?!?

Yes, I realize the thing is going very, very slow, and it's obvious that little Aria has mastered the art of balancing on top of spinning vacuums.

But the one thing that kept popping out at me was that perfect little head of hers -- and the hardwood floor beneath it. One sudden jerk or shaky move and that little girl could've toppled over and banged her head on that hard floor -- a thought that made me cringe over and over again.

When my son was a baby, I constantly worried about him smashing his head into something. I remember not even wanting to sit him on a floor that wasn't carpeted without some sort of padding beneath him out of fear that he'd hurt his poor little noggin.

And yes, I realize I was probably a bit overprotective and extreme (what new parent isn't?), but isn't that better than sitting him on top of a moving household appliance because you're too naive to think anything will go wrong?

What do you think? Were these parents being irresponsible in letting their baby ride the Roomba?

*UPDATE FROM PARENTS*

I’m both the person filming the video and also Aria’s dad. I don’t normally make a habit of jumping into internet debates, but since there are over 500 comments about our parenting (the most I’ve seen regarding our video on any website), I thought I would add a few cents to the conversation.

First, my wife and I have really enjoyed reading most of the comments in this thread. It is always great to get feedback, even if it only covers a small sliver of life. 

Second, our parenting style is about exposure both physically and mentally. The video shows one small slice of life where Aria is riding a Roomba. That slice of life by itself doesn't add up to much more than a silly minute, but summing her exposure to lots of different activities over months and years gives Aria confidence in different situations and makes her a more well rounded person. The video was taken ~3 years ago and Aria will be 4 in April. I’m confident in our parenting style because I can see the amazing little girl she has become and a glimpse of the adult she is becoming. Aria was walking at 11 months, riding a bike without training wheels, ballet classes, and zip-lining when she was 2, rock climbing outdoors, caving (she calls it looking for bears) and skiing when she was 3. Not only are we proud of her for these accomplishments, but she is proud of herself. She simply loves trying new things and has confidence in herself (and us) that she will always be reasonably safe. We do science project Saturdays, take her to the museum, build volcanos, shoot model rockets, and do color experiments to expose her mind to new things as well. The more we can expose her to the better, even crazy Roomba rides at 7 months as long as the danger level is acceptably low.

Could she have fallen off the Roomba? Sure, it is possible, but we had confidence that she would be able to stay on and we were nearby to help prevent a fall. Does the Roomba ride look pointless? Yes, if viewed as a single slice, but it is just 1 small experience amongst a myriad of others that collectively expose her to new things and build her confidence and abilities. Were we having fun making the video? Absolutely, just like all the other crazy things we do with Aria, although I’m a little embarrassed by my “woooooing.”  :-) This whole viral video thing is a new experience for her as well. Just last night we were talking with her about how she has become “internet famous.” She seemed to get a kick out of it. She got a big smile when her aunt called to tell her that she saw her on the internet.

But ultimately, the people to best asses what a specific child can or cannot do is the child’s parents. Other parents should absolutely raise their children in the best way they see fit. For us, we feel successful in the way we have raised Aria and are proud of her. Most importantly, she is proud of herself.

I intended to throw in 2 cents but I ended up throwing in 10, I guess that is because I’m her dad.

--Jon Reberry

Replies

  • Bellarose0212
    January 4, 2013 at 3:19 AM

    Yeah, I can totally relate to overprotectiveness. I ERF in the car,  otherwise obsess about carseats and their installation, would never ever put a baby in a baby bucket on a shopping cart, didn't leave the room my baby was in for a good three months and didn't leave her to go on a date for like 13 months, etc.

    But, this did not strike me as scary or shocking. I felt like baby was going pretty slow and if she had fallen, it would have been no worse than the injuries kids recieve when they learn to crawl, pull up, walk, etc.

    Maybe I wouldn't do this but I don't think they were being irresponsible.

  • nutritiousmom
    January 4, 2013 at 4:21 AM
    Has anyone noticed the look on baby's face while she's trying to balance on the machine? I haven't seen any giggles or even a smile! Her parents may be enjoying the ride, but she obviously doesn't share the fun! The main irresponsible part is ignoring your baby's reactions for your own joy! Sad for the little girl!
  • Anonymous 108
    by Anonymous 108
    January 4, 2013 at 4:45 AM

    This is exactly why posting your every single moment on the internet is dangerous.

    I see nothing wrong with the video as the parents were only foot steps away from their child.

  • howdah
    by howdah
    January 4, 2013 at 4:52 AM

    Oh come on. The mother was right there watching. Maybe you think she should wear a helmet when she starts to walk on that hardwood floor or they should cover it with foam rubber. I would be more worried about damaging the Roomba than the baby.

  • Anonymous 109
    by Anonymous 109
    January 4, 2013 at 5:01 AM
    He was clearly right with her! She hit the floor how many times trying to walk? Thats closer to the floor,how stupid where they for doing this? Clearly not that stupid it made it on tv!
  • travelbunny
    January 4, 2013 at 5:27 AM

    I would have had a heart attack.

  • extentions
    January 4, 2013 at 6:39 AM

    blank stare What a STUPID  couple,, and they shamelessly DISPLAY such  foolish  VIDEO  on here,, what are they trying to TEACH ¨other mothers??,,They are so IGNORANT,, that they dont care  much DANGER  is INVOLVED   in the many times their BABY missed to  fall or how many times he  hit  his HEAD on the SOFA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!bad

  • greenmachine47
    January 4, 2013 at 7:02 AM

    I don't feel the baby was in any immediate danger. Both parents were right there.

  • CamMa
    by CamMa
    January 4, 2013 at 7:12 AM
    Wow, some of these replies. That thing is nothing. The baby is fine and she's a BABY. Babies hit their heads. It's part of a baby's life!!
  • 5boysarrgh
    January 4, 2013 at 7:22 AM
    Heavens people calm down. The mom was right there. Maybe putting the baby on his belly might be better.

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