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TrouserMouse
So, I admit it. I screwed up.
January 2, 2013 at 11:45 PM
I didn't mention this earlier because I wasn't sure how I was going to handle it. I had posted before how I let my son go with my ex's sister who is a former drug addict and has a history of alcoholism. He is 17 and wanted to spend time with his grandpa because he is very ill and not likely to live much longer. I felt it would be wrong to tell him at his age that he could not spend time with his family no matter how much I do not like my ex-SIL. I was already pissed because she said she would only keep him one week and she kept him two weeks.

Tonight, when we were having our talk about me being suspicious that he was smoking, he admitted to me that he smoked pot with his aunt. He was scared to admit it to me because he knows I would be mad at her. He made it a point to tell me he chose to do it. I explained to him that she was the adult (35 years old) in the situation and it never should have happened.

I just texted her and said:

You would think after losing your own kids because you couldn't stay clean that you would be smart enough to not contribute to a minor. I knew better than to trust you with my child. Do not contact my kids via phone, FB, or otherwise or I will report you to CPS and the police. That is if I do not decide to do it anyway. It is in your best interest to remove them from your FB. You will be lucky if I do not report you.



She has not responded.

Replies

  • EAzizM
    by EAzizM
    January 2, 2013 at 11:46 PM
    I am sure she didn't force him. He is 17. Dont place the blame just on her.
  • CorisMom
    January 2, 2013 at 11:47 PM
    Yikes! Update when she responds!
  • MyGirlsAbbyLiz
    January 2, 2013 at 11:49 PM
    Its just pot
  • TrouserMouse
    January 2, 2013 at 11:52 PM
    I said that in the post. Like I said, she is the adult in the situation. She should have never let that happen. I trusted her to be responsible for my child to allow him to spend time with his grandpa. Contributing to him engaging in illegal activities is not being responsible for him.

    Quoting EAzizM:

    I am sure she didn't force him. He is 17. Dont place the blame just on her.
  • eviesmom453
    January 2, 2013 at 11:55 PM
    I'd be pissed. She sounds like a pathetic POS.
  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1
    January 2, 2013 at 11:56 PM
    I was right! I knew it was pot lol.
  • TrouserMouse
    January 2, 2013 at 11:57 PM
    If you want to encourage your children to smoke pot and engage in illegal activities, go for it. When you start encouraging other people's children to do so, you are crossing a line.



    Someone popping a positive drug test in my home could cause me to lose my job. That is not cool at all.


    Quoting MyGirlsAbbyLiz:

    Its just pot
  • Sagely
    by Sagely
    January 2, 2013 at 11:57 PM
    I agree with you 100%, but I wouldn't actually report her if it was limited to your 17 year old smoking pot. I'd just freak out and make sure everyone know I could.

    Kinda like you're doing now. LoL

  • Anonymous 2
    by Anonymous 2
    January 2, 2013 at 11:58 PM

     Why do you feel the need to post every aspect of your life with your sons on here??

  • EAzizM
    by EAzizM
    January 2, 2013 at 11:58 PM
    So if he was 18 what would you Do? Since then he would be an"adult".

    Quoting TrouserMouse:

    I said that in the post. Like I said, she is the adult in the situation. She should have never let that happen. I trusted her to be responsible for my child to allow him to spend time with his grandpa. Contributing to him engaging in illegal activities is not being responsible for him.



    Quoting EAzizM:

    I am sure she didn't force him. He is 17. Dont place the blame just on her.

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