My sister has health problems that causes her to get really sick, she throws up for days nonstop and she eventually has to go to the hospital for a day or two at the most. Every time she gets sick her husband calls me to babysit my niece, which I don't mind doing at all. I had my niece for a whole weekend not to long ago and he didn't even call once to check up on her or anything (even though he knows she's in good care). No contact from him at all. I got my niece yesterday and today at 430pm he calls me and says "I'll be there soon to pick her up." I said okay no problem. He still hasn't shown up. I haven't heard from him, he isn't answering my calls. I'm tired of him taking advantage of me. Now I have to miss work tomorrow because there's no one to watch my niece.
Do you think he could be cheating on your sister? I just got a huge flash in my head reading this and a big jolt. I would look into this. I am usually never wrong. Good Luck. Also he is thinking that this is his "time" when she is in the hospital and you have the daughter. He wants no reality on 'his time" He really is a jerk.