Update: so I talked to him finally and we shot the breeze for a few and I was like oh. Remember the other day I offered to clean up your email and you said you'd appreciate that.. Well, did you forget to cancel your match subscription? He said no, he got it this morning. He said he wasn't sure if we would work out and if we didn't than he was trying to find someone who took care of him better. But we're still together, he hasn't cheated and he still loves me and he still wants to be with me. I was so shocked and numb that I was actually speechless. Who does that???
I was helping my df go through his emails one day a week or so ago trying to find a confirmation number for something and told him I was gonna clean up his inbox for him. (He has over 4000 unread messages) I asked if he would get upset and he said no he's actually really appreciate it.
So I pulled it up today thinking I would get rid of some obvious junk mail and clean it up some and he had an email from match. ( we met on match so it didn't really surprise me). He had a bunch of dating websites but the emails were never opened so I figured it was just stuff that keeps getting sent out. This one though in the subject line said his profile was approved and dated early this morning.
I had a sinking feeling so I checked his online banking and sure enough he reactivated his account this morning. :(
I think I'm going to be sick.
by Mom2five87December 11, 2012 at 2:16 PMWow. What are you gonna do?
by momto3BDecember 11, 2012 at 2:18 PM
I am so very sorry. Either he set you up to find it so that you would end the relationship so he does not have to or he is looking to cheat. In either case, time to end this thing before you marry and have kids.
by Jers.December 11, 2012 at 2:18 PM
I have no advice, just sorry *hugs*
by Anonymous - Original PosterDecember 11, 2012 at 2:18 PMI honestly don't know. The past month has been so overwhelming I'm not sure how much more I can handle or if I can even handle anything in a remotely calm manner right now.
Wow. What are you gonna do?
by AnonymousDecember 11, 2012 at 2:19 PM:( i found some texts from my dh to another woman this morning. I feel yourpain :(.
by AnonymousDecember 11, 2012 at 2:19 PMThat sucks
by Anonymous - Original PosterDecember 11, 2012 at 2:20 PMI'm sorry. :(
:( i found some texts from my dh to another woman this morning. I feel yourpain :(.
by Jessy613December 11, 2012 at 2:20 PM
Soo sorry =(
by AnonymousDecember 11, 2012 at 2:21 PM