I'm afraid I'll be turned off by him and am I selfish??
December 11, 2012 at 1:45 AM
My husband is trying to lose 100 lbs, give or take. He is a pretty big guy, around 280, although years ago he was RIPPED. He is losing pretty rapidly, and I am concerned about several things.
First of all, I am worried that once he reaches his goal, he'll have loose, saggy skin from being overweight for so many years, and I'm worried that It will completely turn me off.
Second of all, I have never known him to be ripped, fit and so forth. I have seen pictures, and it doesn't even look like him. Part of what attracted me to him, in the first place, was how big he is, and I'm afraid he'll just look too much different than when I fell in love with him.
Thirdly, I am afraid that he'll lose all this weight, beef back up, and want a prettier girl because he's no longer overweight.