Mom Confessions
Some people say that the key to a strong marriage is to put your husband/wife "first" (before kids) - do you agree? Do you think that a strong marriage is the key to a healthy happy FAMILY?
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SO! How many of you bashed the step-mom/Dad's GF for wanting to take a birthday weekend with her SO instead of him having DD that wekend, on her birthday?? THAT MAN, according to 44% of you, SHOULD MAKE HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS S/O HIS PRIORITY?!?
Unless it's a step parent right? Then you single/divorced moms get your panties in a wad because you're a jealous that your ex wants to take care of his relationship with his new S/O and you claim that the step parent is causing conflict and trying to wedge in between the man and his daughter - BUT she's supposed to be the more important relationship, right???
I'm just saying.. I can't beleive how many people in this group flipped SHlT over that post, when half of you think that the "marriage" relationship should take priority over the kids.
Interesting, huh?
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- Only group members can vote in this poll.
- 38% - Husband/Wife
- 61% - Kids
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My relationship with my husband is the most important, as it is the basis of our family. -
Yep
Quoting Kaelaasmom:
My relationship with my husband is the most important, as it is the basis of our family. -
We put our kids needs first. We do take time out for ourselves and can't wait till all the kids are out of the house 1 down 3 to go.
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I say dh. If dh and I are good it trickles down to the kids. Just like it would if we weren't
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Neither. I think it needs to be balanced. -
Kids come first for both of us. I didn't create him. I did, however, create my children, and it's my duty to put them above all. -
I should be putting my hubby first, but honestly we are both more concerned with our kids first and us later -
Nope......kids always come first in this family
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I agree with this. They r both most important
Quoting 504bbymami:
Neither. I think it needs to be balanced.
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Yes, I strongly agree.