Mom Confessions
He was never home and when he was y'all argued or just didn't talk? My dh works 12 hrs a day 7 days a week. The kids are usually in bed when he gets home so they hardly see him. I'm a sahm so I do everything around the house and with the kids. On the days he gets home at a decent time we are either arguing or its just silence. I had rather him not be here bc I almost hate being near him. The only thing that's stopping me is that he pays for everything. Bills, house payments, groceries, clothes, toys everything. I've never had a job so I know it would be hard for me to get one and provide for my kids. I'm at a crossroad...any advice? Counseling is not an option with his work schedule and stubbornness.
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Not unless he cheated or he was abusive. What are your arguments about?
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You both need some growing up to do. What do you argue about every day?
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No. I might not be very happy but I take my vows seriously. The only reasons I would ever leave would be abuse or unfaithfulness. -
Have you just tried sitting down with him and talking about it?
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He sounds stressed and tired because he works so damn much. -
No, that is ridiculous. Maybe you should look into getting a job and contributing to the household income, so DH doesn't have to pull so much weight. That way he could have a day or 2 off a week to spend with the family and you.
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How old are ypu two? How many kids?
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I would leave -
gurl, you have it made, he is the one working 12 hr days, you get to stay home and raise your beautiful babies, just do your thing with your kiddos and friends and ignore him, you are on the winning end sweetie
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No you both need to take a step back and give each other positive attention.