They always want you to stay home, till they get a whiff of a willing piece of tail. Next thing you know they are trying to leave you broke with 4 kids. While they run off and act like teenagers again. Oh yeah "This will never happen to me" lol! I thought the same thing.
There are ways to reduce the odds in the selection process up front. Whatever he has done before, he will do again. If he is dishonest in the smallest ways, he will be dishonest with you. There is always evidence, if you know what to look for (and often, when you are young, you don't) and if you pay attention.
Anyway, I'm sorry this happened to you. And remember, "your deeds will return on your own head". He won't get away with it unscathed.
December 5, 2012 at 12:21 PM
He sent me and our two kids packing bc he needed a break from the marriage, boys were only 2 months old...
I'm extremely sorry that this happens to anyone-for any reason-but especially for the children involved. Divorce is so hard on kids. I wish people would get a serious attack of INTEGRITY before they break up their families.
I got my degree before I got pregnant. I could get a job if I wanted to, right now I am just a volunteer because I don't feel like working for just anyone. So I have, hopefully, a good reference to look forward to while I keep busy.
I have a savings account, he knows about it but has no access to it. That is a mutual agreement....simply because he sucks with money and has no lack of impulse when it comes to spending. So it is in my name.
The Army would make him pay me, regardless. So that's always there.
I didn't plan for him leaving me, but I do have the resources for if he does. The only thing I'd be screwed on is the things like medical and dental insurance.