I told dh I was thinking of dying my hair black. My natural color is dark blonde. He said no. I said I didn't ask your permission. He said that he just didn't like black hair. I said it was my hair. He said, "Well I just don't want you to." Yeah not good enough! How would you deal with this? Does your dh think he owns your hair?
And if your husband thinks your beautiful with the natural color you have..shouldn't you just take it as a compliment? He's trying to tell you that you're naturally beautiful to him, why would you want to change that?
It's my hair... So whatever I wanted would happen. I think it's hilarious that women 'respect' their husbands and that means they wont do something like dye their hair without their okay... If your husbands respected you he would support your decision to change your hair color.