Mom Confessions
I called my sister's best friend back today and she said that she caught her DH with a co-worker (why cheating men are too stupid to at least delete text msgs is beyond me). He confessed and supposedly broke it off, but refuses to go to counseling. She wants to try and make it work. He cites the reason for cheating on her weight. There are just no words right now. She couldn't talk long, but what the heck to I say when she calls back? I'm a heavier girl too, but it shows more on her because she's petite. I feel it's still no excuse though. He took vows.
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An excuse is an excuse..it is still wrong.
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I'm just gonna go with you're a piece of shit for a woman. ;)
Quoting Anonymous:
haha, he took the same vows to love honor and obey me
He obeys very well :)
Quoting CamMa:
You're one of those pushover women who thinks her man's shit doesn't stink, aren't you? You do everything to please him, but he does nothing to please you? Yep, I can see it. ;)
Quoting Anonymous:
Tested at 141 so I'm not that bad :)
Quoting CamMa:
Wow...you are a moron.
Quoting Anonymous:
She didn't keep up the vows first
"to love, honor and obey"
She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.
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:( Definitely not an excuse.
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Lame excuse to be a pig. -
lol strike #2, you wanna go for #3?
Quoting CamMa:
I'm just gonna go with you're a piece of shit for a woman. ;)
Quoting Anonymous:
haha, he took the same vows to love honor and obey me
He obeys very well :)
Quoting CamMa:
You're one of those pushover women who thinks her man's shit doesn't stink, aren't you? You do everything to please him, but he does nothing to please you? Yep, I can see it. ;)
Quoting Anonymous:
Tested at 141 so I'm not that bad :)
Quoting CamMa:
Wow...you are a moron.
Quoting Anonymous:
She didn't keep up the vows first
"to love, honor and obey"
She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.
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He's a (_*_) -
Uh, wtf ever.
Im overweight and my hubby wants me to lose weight, he knows im trying hard. I just had a baby, but thats not a good reason to me! He loves me so much he would never cheat on me! Her dh is a fucking loser and can never be trusted again. -
No excuse and the fact that he's blaming her weight shows what a low down dirty sleeze bag he really is. Tell her to get a good divorce lawyer!
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You think like a man, meaning you probably look like a man.
Just saying. Idgaf what you look like or how you think, but I sincerely hope your husband is fucking every girl he can get his hands on and I hope he looks you in they eyes and tells you...
its because your a total bitch.
Quoting Anonymous:
lol strike #2, you wanna go for #3?
Quoting CamMa:
I'm just gonna go with you're a piece of shit for a woman. ;)
Quoting Anonymous:
haha, he took the same vows to love honor and obey me
He obeys very well :)
Quoting CamMa:
You're one of those pushover women who thinks her man's shit doesn't stink, aren't you? You do everything to please him, but he does nothing to please you? Yep, I can see it. ;)
Quoting Anonymous:
Tested at 141 so I'm not that bad :)
Quoting CamMa:
Wow...you are a moron.
Quoting Anonymous:
She didn't keep up the vows first
"to love, honor and obey"
She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.
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I guess it depends.
If it really is about her weight, then it's not really about her weight, but the fact that she let herself go and doesn't take care of herself.. If she's not taking care of herself, then she's probably not taking care of the relationship, either. I would expect if this is the case, that he tried to get her involved again..
But this isn't an 'excuse' to cheat.
In fact, just by the fact that he refuses to go to counseling says a lot about where his priorities are. He's trying to turn this around on her and make it her fault, when he's the one in the wrong here.
I don't really think that you can tell her anything except to make a decision - he's not willing to work on the relationship, plain and simple. She's going to have to think about that and what she wants to do with that information.