Sex suragget (sp?) another post brought this to mind
November 30, 2012 at 10:32 PM
The other post was asking about a sex suragget being someone who would come in if you and your so/dh had issues in your sex life. They would watch you have sex and give you tips and input during the act.
My question is: a suragget could also be someone who comes in and does something for your so/dh that you won't/can't do. Like swallow, or anal, or whatever. Would you consider this?
I did this for my dh, I had a "friend" come over and have anal sex with my dh. He always talked about this and asked me to do it. I just wasn't into that. I had a solution! I gave him my "friend's a**" for his bday gift!!
At the time he acted like he enjoyed it, but has never asked for that again!
That's a little crazy! I think is rather my SO slept with a prostitute than a friend. I would never be able to look at that friend and not think of him pounding her in the ass! So, in short, f--- no!!!
November 30, 2012 at 10:38 PM
Congrats. Nothing like helping your husband be gay and smell like poo poo.
i could never be ok with my husband having sex with someone else let alone me knowing about it, watching, or being in the next room or whatever. btw what were you doing while they were doing that? would he let you do something like that with someone else? did they make out and do all that or did he just like slip it in there and not touch them otherwise? and do you still hang out with this person? is it wierd hanging out with them with your husband around? do you think he pictures that or thinks about that when they are around? so many questions.. sorry. i just couldn't handle that.