I stayed 3 years....well really only the last year was nearly completely sexless. We had a lot of other issues as well. We were no more than roommates that had sex every couple of months. I was miserable and found every excuse I could to get out of the house. I worked hard to mend the relationship in the beginning but after pleading and pleading that we go to counseling or try to make things better I finally gave up. I always say the relationship was over far before I actually left. I have never had one regret nor did I shed one tear after we split up.
If my wife can put up with my issues then I could put up with no sex if I had to.
by Anonymous 17
November 21, 2012 at 10:46 AM
Well so far I've been married 13 years, and the past 2 of it has been sexless. I couldn't take it after a couple of months, but I'm still here, because my children are more important than my need for intimacy. I can't imagine leaving anytime soon, but I am frustrated a lot.