I stayed and it changed. He was way too exhausted from his job. I made it personal about me it was a horrible experience. Now he wants it and I don't. lol. My advice is to forget about it and work on everything else.
Op, why isn't your dh having sex with you? Or are you not giving it up to him?
No, sex isn't everything, but it is important. I can't answer without knowing more details, but if we were both comfortable not having sex, even if there was no medical issue, then it wouldn't matter. But if it important to one partner, the. it needs to be important to the other.
My sex drive plummeted the second the pee stick showed positive, and dh has been extremely patient with me because of it. There are other ways to satisfy. But if I were to deny him just because, how could I blame him for wanting it? I don't get mad at my kids because they're hungry. It's the same concept.