If it was just sexless, but everything else was still great (we still had fun and communicated and spent quality time together) then I would stay no matter what. If DH was paralyzed from the waist down and could not perform sexually, I would stand by him. If our marriage was sexless AND we started treating each other like strangers, I would leave but only if we had exhausting any and all effort to get our marriage back on track.
November 21, 2012 at 8:55 AM
As long as he was still faithful, I would stay for life. There are so many more types of intimacy than sex to feel connected. If the sex was that important to me, we would use toys. But our vows were in sickness & in health, good times & bad & I will fight to keep them. If we had sex everyday & suddenly he suffered an accident or health problem & could no longer have sex, I wouldn't leave. Why would him being healthy but not wanting sex be an excuse?