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Stop mutilating your babies!!!!
by Anonymous
November 19, 2012 at 4:02 PM

Why did my loving parents do this to me many years ago?

I’m sure their doctor told them it was the hygienic thing to do. But I’m equally sure I must have been screaming like hell while it was being done. Today, millions of circumcisions are still performed. But it’s time to stop this shocking brutality and the complications associated with it.

Dr. Guy Madder, a surgeon at the Queen Elizabeth Hospital, Adelaide, Australia, reports in the Annals of Family Medicine that there is no convincing evidence that circumcision decreases the risk of sexually transmitted disease, urinary tract infections, or penile cancer.

The rituals of some religious faiths advocate circumcision. But, apart from these circumstances, it’s hard to justify this procedure. In fact, a reading of the world’s medical journals makes your hair stand on end when you read of potential surgical complications.

How common are complications? This depends on how you label a complication. For example, penal foreskin is anatomically the most sensitive part of the organ. It ensures satisfactory sex. It’s therefore reasonable to argue that in this instance the complication rate is 100% because it decreases sexual satisfaction.

There’s another aspect to circumcision that is never mentioned in the discussion of the pros and cons of this surgery. Today, erectile dysfunction (ED) drugs are being used by an increasing number of males, and many of them are not in their senior years. I admit, I have no hard statistics on this matter. [Editor's note: recent ED statistics are outlined in The Rise of Viagra]

But I wonder how many males who require ED drugs could have experienced a longer and more satisfactory sex life, if this sensitive organ had not been removed. I suspect more than we realize. This is a great project for some aspiring researcher!

But why do some of the complications of this procedure make one’s hair stand on end? Harvey Cushing, one of Harvard’s greatest brain surgeons, once remarked that, “There is no such thing as minor surgery, but there are a lot of minor surgeons.” In this case, a profound remark.

Compared to brain surgery, circumcision is a minor procedure, and is normally performed without complications. But, no surgical procedure to my knowledge has ever been devised, regardless of how minor it is, without possible untoward results.

The world’s medical journals are full of reports dealing with a variety of surgical complications. And the vast majority of severe complications are not an act of God, but technical human errors made during the procedure.

A primary problem is the incorrect use of the circumcision clamp. In some cases too much foreskin is pulled into the clamp resulting in injury, not only to the shaft of the penis, but also to the urinary tube (urethra) that runs through it. The most traumatic complication in the past caused the amputation of part of the penis.

Such traumatic injuries to the penis and urethra often result in urinary stricture and difficulty passing urine. Or, the injury may result in a urethral fistula, in which urine is discharged through an abnormal opening. These complications are not easy to repair, and what starts out as a minor procedure, becomes a major one. Moreover, some of these injuries only become apparent following discharge from hospital. A fistula often takes weeks or months to make its presence known.

There have been bizarre problems that one would never think of happening. For instance, one newborn screamed during the procedure with such intensity that the stomach ruptured, requiring additional emergency surgery.

Another had heart failure [heart attack] from the circumcision surgery and died.

Still another died from a bleeding disorder post-op. It’s easy to see how this could happen since coagulation studies are not routinely done prior to circumcision surgery.

Why wouldn’t babies scream like hell when circumcised without anesthesia? And how many males who have it done later in life would agree to this procedure without anesthesia?

Today we criticize those cultures that believe in the barbaric act of female circumcision. Yet Western doctors continue to carry out this sadistic procedure in males without their permission. That’s why many argue that circumcision violates the United Nations Declaration of Human Rights. Amen to that.


There are more links and good reads on the website. This isn't a debate. You are playing with fire and potentially scarring your son for life. Please be factually informed before you chop it off. You may sit back and say "Well, my baby/son never had problems, he is set for life!" Look at the increase of men looking to reverse it and now looking to help for ED. The complications may not be present at first, but they will come at a vengence later.


  • katiehopson
    November 19, 2012 at 4:02 PM

    Stop telling people how to raise their children. 

  • Maks1mommy
    November 19, 2012 at 4:03 PM
  • Dzyre1115
    November 19, 2012 at 4:03 PM

     I slice and pierce my kids, they made it, they seem emotionally stable, at least for now, lol!!!

  • Anonymous 2
    by Anonymous 2
    November 19, 2012 at 4:03 PM

    My son is circed and I would do it again if I have another. He's doing fine. Hubby is circed and glad his mother made that decision for him.

  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    November 19, 2012 at 4:04 PM
    Out of 100 Circumcised boys:

    75 will not readily breastfeed post-op

    55 will have adverse reactions from the surgery

    35 will have post-op hemorrhaging to one degree or another

    31 will develop meatal ulcers

    10 will need to have the circumcision surgery repeated to fix prior surgical problems/error
    8 will suffer infection at the surgical site

    3 will develop post-operative phimosis

    2 will have a more serious complication (seizure, heart attack, stroke, loss of penis, death)

    1 will require additional immediate surgery and sutures to stop hemorrhage

    1 will develop fibrosis

    1 will develop phimosis

    1 will be treated with antibiotics for a UTI (urinary tract infection)

    1 will be treated with antibiotics for surgical site infection

    Of those who do receive pain medication for the surgery (about 4% of those boys undergoing circumcision in the U.S.) some will have adverse reactions to the pain medication injected

    Out of 100 Intact boys:

    2 will be treated with antibiotics for a UTI (fewer if the foreskin is never forcibly retracted)

    1 will be told to get cut later in life for one reason or another (fewer if the foreskin is never forcibly retracted)
  • sarah.xo
    November 19, 2012 at 4:04 PM
    Here we go again!
  • Anonymous 3
    by Anonymous 3
    November 19, 2012 at 4:04 PM


  • minimo77
    November 19, 2012 at 4:04 PM

    NOT **this** again.

  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    November 19, 2012 at 4:05 PM

    Seriously you guys are FAST readers if you READ all of the FACTS on this website and came back with an informed argument. Kudos to you. Must be a record!

  • Anonymous 3
    by Anonymous 3
    November 19, 2012 at 4:05 PM

    Just how many guys are traumatized from being circumsized?

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