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Have you ever had a one night stand?
by Anonymous
November 18, 2012 at 9:15 AM
I know, most of us have settled down and wonderful mommies, but back in the day when you were the hot and single, did you ever have a one night stand atleast once?

Now by one night stand that could mean 1) sleeping with a guy you just met that day or night and never talking to him again
Or 2) sleeping with someone you may have "seen around" a couple of times, but didn't really know him and then not really talking to him again afterwards"

I'll admit, In college I used to have the hotts for a neighbor who lived a couple stories down in my apartment complex and one drunk night after coming from the club, I totally "staged" a lock out just to sleep over his place JUST to get some just once ;) totally worked and never spoke to him again...

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  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    November 18, 2012 at 9:23 AM
    Yes & actually...that's all I ever see myself having, ever again. I'm tired of the reltionship failures. All I ever see are relationships where suddenly 8 years in, someone changes their mind or totally changes and becomes an asshole. I cannot deal with that again.
  • mommajenn4684
    November 18, 2012 at 9:24 AM
    Yes I did. I went to friends apartment he came over and one thing lead to another and I ended up in his apartment having the most amazing drunken sex ever!
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    November 18, 2012 at 9:24 AM
    Lol

    I love when those who chose to wait always have to conclude that self respect is contingent on sexual partners.


    Quoting ratchetlee:

    NO!  I always took sex very important.... I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21.  I met my husband 6 months later.... I really wish I had waited those 6 months :-(.

    I always just wanted to be with 1 man.  Sex is too risky....and I respected myself way too much to just sleep with anyone..... 

  • mss119
    by mss119
    November 18, 2012 at 9:24 AM

    I have done both of the situations you said there, more than once.  It was more comon to do #2, where I had seen them around from time to time, but I have also met strangers at the club and gone home with them that night, never to speak again.  I had a lot of fun in my early college days, but then settled down in my last 2 years of college, and then REALLY settled down when I got pregnant with my oldest the year after I graduated college.

  • SlightlyPerfect
    November 18, 2012 at 9:26 AM

    Like people who have one-night stands or casual sex have no self-respect and just hang out in streets with their legs open...

    I've had many sexual partners because I have healthy self-esteem.

    Quoting Anonymous:

    Lol

    I love when those who chose to wait always have to conclude that self respect is contingent on sexual partners.


    Quoting ratchetlee:

    NO!  I always took sex very important.... I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21.  I met my husband 6 months later.... I really wish I had waited those 6 months :-(.

    I always just wanted to be with 1 man.  Sex is too risky....and I respected myself way too much to just sleep with anyone..... 


  • Fistandantalus
    November 18, 2012 at 9:27 AM

    No, I chose not to form close relationships with anyone back when I was single and dubiously "hot".  

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    November 18, 2012 at 9:27 AM
    Lol agreed!

    Quoting SlightlyPerfect:

    Like people who have one-night stands or casual sex have no self-respect and just hang out in streets with their legs open...

    I've had many sexual partners because I have healthy self-esteem.

    Quoting Anonymous:

    Lol



    I love when those who chose to wait always have to conclude that self respect is contingent on sexual partners.





    Quoting ratchetlee:

    NO!  I always took sex very important.... I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21.  I met my husband 6 months later.... I really wish I had waited those 6 months :-(.

    I always just wanted to be with 1 man.  Sex is too risky....and I respected myself way too much to just sleep with anyone..... 


  • mss119
    by mss119
    November 18, 2012 at 9:28 AM

    Interesting how those things work out, huh?  I've had two situations that were intended to be ONS's, but turned into relationships... once because I got pregnant, and then also my current relationship, I thought it was just drunken fun at a party, and he pursued me for almost a month before I would go out with him, lol!

    Quoting weezer_cookie:

    Yes and no. My ONS turned into a marriage. LOL


  • weezer_cookie
    November 18, 2012 at 9:29 AM
    LOL I must have made an impression hahahaha

    Quoting mss119:

    Interesting how those things work out, huh?  I've had two situations that were intended to be ONS's, but turned into relationships... once because I got pregnant, and then also my current relationship, I thought it was just drunken fun at a party, and he pursued me for almost a month before I would go out with him, lol!

    Quoting weezer_cookie:

    Yes and no. My ONS turned into a marriage. LOL


  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    November 18, 2012 at 9:30 AM
    Nope. I've never had "hot and single" days. I was gross and married at 17. Then gross and divorced at 21. Now I'm back to gross and married. Most men wouldn't touch me with a. 10 ft stick

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