I may have missed something i just needed to get this out. I already told her bio dad if he hurts her that's it, he wont see or speak to her until she is old enough to find him herself and he can then explain to her why he wasn't around.
i hope it works out too with her bio dad, because thats what dd wants. she may be only 6 but she is old enough to know what she wants. Thanks its going to be a long road but i will do everything in my power to keep her from being hurt. she doesnt deserve that
Well I'm glad she has a good mom and dad in her life already!hope it works out in the end with her bio dad but its one of those things that can take time to tell whAt will really happen with that. Good luck to you and your dd!
i stopped relaying messages until i know for sure... she cannot get hurt, its not her fault they are morons. maybe its mine for telling her the truth. all i know is she is my world and i hate seeing her hurt
Aww that's a mess. Poor dd. I'd just see what they really want to do and not tell dd about it until its happening for real I guess... Not sure what to do really that's a tough situation for your dd
by AnonymousNovember 16, 2012 at 8:55 PMI'm confused on why you would talk to her about it any way if you know how these people are. Have some tact.
Because she asked... what was i suppose to do straight up lie to her? tell her ask me in a few years? she has been asking about her grandma for a few years now. they send her gifts 3-8 times a year and we always give them to her. it was only a matter of time before she would ask questions and want to contact them. it is her right to do so as well
I'm confused on why you would talk to her about it any way if you know how these people are. Have some tact.
by AnonymousNovember 16, 2012 at 10:25 PMI feel your pain My oldest has a different father.
I'm in Michigan and they would not let us terminate his rights because he paid child support once a year, while he was in jail on work release for back support.
Technically that one check I got every year or two while in jail was contact.
We went to court because he got disablity and actually tried fighting for full custody after not seeing him for 6 years. (since he didn't have to run from c.s. warrents)
We agreed he could have visits but at first they had to be at my sons therapists. Then we would work up. He showed up once and then I guess he didn't like that my son said umm so where have you been for 6 years.
Honestly I wouldn't tell her about anything any more unless you know 100% It's actually going to happen. Poor girl.