Ok so I live with SO in his parents apartment for the time being. His sister and his sisters wife and son also live with us. His sister is friends with a woman that lives downstairs... I cant stand this woman. She's pregnant with twins right now, and has three already that she NEVER stays home with. She's dirty... she never cleans her apartment, never cleans her kids, never FEEDS her kids. She's upstairs in this apartment instead of her own ALL the time. My little one is going on 4 months now and we're hitting the stage that he's working on his sleep schedule.... He was crying a few days ago because I sat him down while I went to fix him a bottle and this woman goes and picks him up then starts complaining on how heavy he is and saying that hes going to be put on a diet (hes 14.5 lbs right now and the doc says its great. he was only 3.bs 12oz at birth). I let it slide because SO said not to start anything with her... then the day before yesterday I was laying down with him on the couch watching our tv shows and cuddling and she comes in and just takes him.... WTF???? I just wanted to punch her but she's pregnant.... again because I didnt want to get kicked out of here I let it slide. I told SO about it that night and he seemed a little pisst off (finally) but didnt say much. THEN last night he was especially fussy and wanted a bottle. I sat with him and tried to calm him down while SO went and fixed him up a bottle. SHE comes in while SO is getting bottle and says "Oh let me see him" I say "no, I've got it he's just hungry, a bottle is coming". SHE goes to grab him away from me... Oh I saw RED. I turned to her and said "EXCUSE you? I said I f***in got this...." SO comes in the room and had to argue with her to make her GO AWAY he could see my face was turning BEET red (only does that when I'm about to kick ass). I'm so tired of her doing this crap and not to mention all the "advice" she likes to give. Like she knows how to take care of anything? SHe doesnt even take care of her own kids. Shes a whore... she screws and has kids that she lives off the child support after making their father have no rights and thinks its great but then tries to give ME advice on MY relationship? I want to kick this b***h down the stairs, seriously. I usually have some patience but my patience is RUNNING Out with this c**t. I cant wait until she is no longer pregnant then shes free game to beat the crap out of. If she doesnt stop with the telling me how to do EVERYTHING with MY son its going to be earlier. I'm at the pont that i dont CARE if i get kicked out. She needs to stay home with her OWN kids!!!!!!!
and since no one can concentrate on anything other than me calling names and not what my actual issue is I went and edited it for everyones f***in enjoyment. oh and WHY is this an issue to me? YOU sit and let some woman take your kid from your arms, act like they live in the place and constantly tell you what your doing is WRONG. And believe me, i WANT to get my own place. We dont have the funds right now, we're lucky his parents are letting us stay with them (another reason I havent torn this idiot a new one, out of respect for his parents).
by SnapItNovember 15, 2012 at 9:15 AMLock the doors
And look for another place
And i can see why you dont get along
Both are type A personalities
But really, punching her after she gives birth wont fix anything
November 15, 2012 at 9:16 AM
I would rather be POOR and on the streets than USE a child to make a living. If you dont see a problem with this... having children only for the child support... using a child for a paycheck... then your just as much of an idiot.
I just don't think you should be up on your high horse and looking down your nose at other moms when you can't even afford to pay for your own place , atleast she can pay her own bills!!
See MYSELF in her? no, sorry. I dont make children to make a paycheck. The reason WHY I dont work and im with SO's parents is because my child was premature. We made the decision to move in here so we can afford me staying home with the baby... to CARE for him. Being a stay at home mom is a job also, just not one that you get paid for with money. My payment is my child's wellbeing. Uneducated? I went to school through high school. Unless you mean uneducated because of no higher education then you would be correct. Anger management issues? if you read the title of my post it says RANT very clearly. In other words, I am venting my anger instead of using it in a different way that could be a lot worse. And seriously STILL with the bastard bs? I edited the post.... since hardly anyone can comment on anything in the post BUT the fact I called a child a name. I don't feel like arguing on a word that I had the definition wrong for. I changed it.
I can understand your frustration, but you should seriously look at yourself and your own life before attacking others for theirs. You don't sound much better than she does. Your child, by definition, is a bastard. You don't work and live in someone elses home with your child that you had out of wedlock. You also sound very uneducated and have anger management issues. I suggest you work on bettering yourself before you go attacking other people for the same life choices you've made. Maybe that's why she angers you so much...maybe you see yourself in her because based on the little you wrote...we can see a lot of similarities!
by RhodinNovember 15, 2012 at 9:16 AM
If she's neglecting her kids, then call CPS. Their health and safety ought to be considered far more important than any bruised feelings on either side.
November 15, 2012 at 9:17 AMNo not that part, the part when you said ”you & OS were cuddling on the couch & the woman came in & took SO away from you?
no she takes my son from my arms when she comes over. sorry if i typed it wrong...
Did you just say she took your SO anyway from you when she came over?
November 15, 2012 at 9:18 AMAgreed
There is so much wrong with all of this.
by Crazy-StephNovember 15, 2012 at 9:18 AMDunes like the easiest solution would to be - GET YOUR OWN PLACE TO LIVE!
by AnonymousNovember 15, 2012 at 9:20 AMLet's see if I've got this right. You, your child, and your boyfriend live in his parents' apartment. That's five people. His sister, her wife, and their child live there too. That's eight people. Good grief! How big is this apartment? Is it government housing?
Wait! Your profile shows that you have three very small children. Why mention only one in your hypocritical rant about your boyfriend's sister's wife's friend who lives in the building? Have you lost custody of the others? Or are there ten people living in you boyfriend's parents' apartment?
You all sound absolutely lovely. All the foul language and threats of violence are especially appropriate. Nice lessons you're teaching your children. Just keep that cycle going.
by winkyloaferNovember 15, 2012 at 9:20 AMThere's a lot wrong with this scenario.
by RLT2November 15, 2012 at 9:21 AM
mmkay, this is umm.......angry