Mom Confessions
She gets the kids on Halloween, its not a holiday in their divorce decree, so whoever gets them that day just gets them.
2 weeks ago, they were discussing holiday plans and she told him he was welcome to come trick or treat with them. Yesterday, we saw her at my SD's soccer game, and I was telling her about the costume I got to wear trick or treating. She didn't say anything, just kind of ignored me. Tonight, she emailed DH that I am not "welcome" to join them. He is allowed to, but either he goes by himself, or he doesn't get to see the kids. What a bitch!
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Eh the kids will enjoy time alone with mom and dad
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That does sound hateful. What is her reasoning? -
So? If he wants to see the kids he will go...If halloween was such a huge issue it should have been put in the custody papers.
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Is it a public neighbourhood? Then she can't stop you. And your DH shouldn't put up with that shit.
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Eh, her day, her call. Hang out with friends instead!
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did she say why?
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I see how its frustrating but she has a mom. You aren't her mom and sometimes it is good for kids to be with just their parents even if they aren't together. Don't make this a bigger deal then it needs.to be. -
I'd show up anyway and dare her to say something to me.
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pick your battles...
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Well you did invite yourself. You should let the kids enjoy their mom and dad together.