So my dh got a job yesterday, and had to go out of state immediately, leaving my 1 year old and I alone. Problem is, his best friend was coming to stay with us for the weekend, and his phone was off so we couldnt get ahold of him to tell him not to come. When he finally got here last night, I told him dh was gone, but that he was still welcome to stay ( what was I supposed to do, tell him, no sorry you just drove 9 hours, turn around and go back). . .
Anyways, so now it is 10 o clock in the morning, he is still asleep on my couch, and I have basically spent the last 4 hours trying to quietly entertain my 1 year old in my bedroom. I am really starting to regret my whole "tvs are bad for the bedroom" belief. Uggg... Part of me wants to go wake him up, or at least just go start doing what I would normally be doing and let him wake up to it, but then I figure A: he got here super late after driving all day, and could probably really use the sleep and B: when he does wake up I am going to have to socialize and "entertain" him which feels awkward without dh, so I should avoid waking him for as long as possible.
Nah, not dumb. But you don't have to entertain him either. He is a grown man, an invited guest of your dh. Tell him you've got plans and then go to the park are window shopping or anything to get you out of the house. I am not sure what I'd do in that situation. Let him have the remote, get your baby playing and do stuff on the computer or household stuff etc.
I know, but I feel like if I wake him, then I am just starting the awkwardness earlier than I have too. I know I am being dumb lol
It is your house. You have to care for your child. Do what you gotta do, he is in your home, if he was at a hotel check out time is at a specific time and he'd have to be up and out of there.