WTF. I generally stay out Of the drama around here, (see? You probably don't even recognize my SN!) but I can't wrap my head aroun all the fucling sustain for women you (general) consider to be lesser than yourself. This isn't a SAHM/working mom thing, as I don't think one can be compared to the other.
As far as working moms go, though... When will it ever be good enough? She has a high power job, so she must not have time to really parent. She works in the service industry, she must be poor and hate her life, and should not be proud to do whatever it takes to provide. Shes furthering her education, and shes a shitbag for not having it done already... And damn, if she's not just plain slum if she accepts PA.