Mom Confessions
I found out I'm pregnant, and I want to keep my baby. But that would mean I would have to go on PA to support the baby. I was told I dont deserve to be a mother if I need PA, so im thinking about aborting. :(
*UPDATE*
Thanks to all that are offering kind words and support. The baby's dad is not in my life, and its my mom that told me I dont deserve to be a mom if Im on any type of PA. Thats why im torn with this decision, because if I keep this baby I will have no support from my family.
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What about adoption? -
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Adoption!
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Lol so you're letting the people on this site determine of your babe lives or not?
This sounds like a drama post IMO
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So stupid.. don't blame it on money if you want the baby keep it.
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No, that is not a good reason to abort. So you are going to need a little help, but terminating a child you want just because you may need PA, is a damn poor reason. Not to mention the emotional damage to you, get the help you need, while you may need help now, it doesn't mean you will need it forever, don't let it bother you. Hugs!
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Have you talked to the father? At least consider adoption.
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It could have been someone close to her. There is life outside of Cafemom ;-)
Quoting cassi_d_m:
Lol so you're letting the people on this site determine of your babe lives or not?
This sounds like a drama post IMO
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We all know you aren't serious. You just want to stir up some drama