You find out you're pregnant. Talk it over with your SO and he explains that he doesn't want a baby right now. You don't care and decide to keep it. Do you feel that he should still be obligated to pay CS even though it was YOUR final decision to go through with it?
That's a hard one I mean you have the issue that well he should of used protection, but there are cases where pregnancy can still happen. I think in cases like that there should be a grace period where the guy can say no and terminate his rights and any obligation. Same as if a guy wants the baby but a woman can choose to abort it.
October 7, 2012 at 2:29 PM
Yes, HE should pay. If he didn't want a baby he should have protected himself and not rely on her 100%. Common sense.
So, your proposal is that men have no responsibiltiy in the situation at all. You know, just like how women have no responsibility in the situation at all. is that right?
Why is it ok for a woman to be able to write off a child if she doesnt want it but a man cant? If we are going to be fair then they should both either have the same opportunity. No one forces a woman to have an abortion. She is free to give up the baby for adoption.
I think men should have the option to just give up their rights if they dont want the child.
I think if they can do that....they must also go through a procedure on their man parts that carries the risk of possibly never being able to have children again....possible injury to internal organs....possible allergic reaction to medication....increased chance for mental health issues, up to and including suicidal ideation and attempt....cramping....bleeding....etc. You know, a physical procedure similar to abortion. And, he should have to walk through a line of picketting people condemning him to hell for his decision. Hey, we want it to be fair, right?