Here's my thing... I don't care if she is a lesbian but my wedding day is not the time to tell her parents who are not going to take it well. Any other day I'd stand up to her parents and have her back but not on my wedding day...
I say she needs to come out before the wedding or not bring her GF. DF says its their business and we should stay out of it. I foresee drama...
WWYD? Tell her to come out before or not bring the GF OR just let it play out because it's their business?
by Kris_PBGOctober 7, 2012 at 6:34 AMOp - I totally agree with you. There is a time and place for everything - and that is not the time or thr place for that.
October 7, 2012 at 6:37 AMI wouldn't allow it either. I'm all for gay marriage but who wants your big day to be remembered as a big fight.
October 7, 2012 at 12:37 PMShe's 21 and still living at home
sorry not happening. and if she doesnt say anything, i would lt her know that you will ask them a week before the wedding if she told them.
i wouldnt give a fuck...
she knows it will cause drama, so fuck her. SIL or not... BTW how old is she?
October 7, 2012 at 12:38 PMI agree with this
I would tell her that your wedding is YOUR day and she can come out any other day.
by AnonymousOctober 7, 2012 at 12:40 PMThat's selfish AND immature of her.
by LanaTsunamiOctober 7, 2012 at 12:40 PMUN invite her
by mepartyOctober 7, 2012 at 12:41 PM
Not at your wedding, either before or after, not on your wedding day, not at the rehearsal either.
October 7, 2012 at 12:43 PMI agree. Also most of our family has never met each other. It would be unfair to his family to have that drama in front of "strangers" and would make a horrible impression on my judgmental ass family who is already not too excited about who I'm marrying.
Tell her if thats her plan she is asked not to come at all it's rude and hurtful to way to many people.to have close family drama play out and front of so many.
by jas_momof2October 7, 2012 at 12:44 PM
Very rude and very wrong of her... I would tell df that either he tells his sister to NOT cause any trouble on your day (ie, the gf can't come) or she doesn't get to go.
by pampireOctober 7, 2012 at 12:45 PM
So as not to steal your thunder she needs to either tell them before, come solo, or bring her gf and introduce her as a friend. That's whay lesbians HAD to do for years. Since it is her first, and still a brand new relationship, she may want to wait.