Well ladies, I was right. A girl tagged him in her check in on Facebook. They were at a bar, I wrote have fun with a married man. I sent him a text not to come home. He said what are you talking about? The check in status was deleted. I will be leaving to my parents tomorrow. Thank goodness I have a education, I will be applying for job asap. I am so numb! I told him I will walk away without and fight and that's what I will be doing. He has been trying to call me but I will not be answering. I hope that girl is strong enough to put up with his bullshit. I kept thinking I was stupid for even questioning his cheating, something in my heart said something was not right... Thank you for responding ladies, I wish you all were right :(
ETA: Thank you for the hugs and supportive words. I am going to finish putting things into my car in case he shows up here tonight and I have to leave. My mom is on here way so thankfully I will have someone here for me. I will update tomorrow once we are out of the house. Good night ladies.
I want to up date quickly before going to register my kids in school. He admitted to it all in hopes that I would come back why? I don't know I'm not stupid. I am filing for divorce today. My youngest misses his dad but my oldest not at all, he was saw the way his dad treated me. I haven't told them why we have left, I will never talk down about their dad. I am ready for this to be over with,I think he will try to delay the divorce as much as he can. Sorry I'm all over the place I'm trying to get out as much as I can before I have to leave. To those of you still calling ME childish for leaving a cheating scum, Fuck off!
by FL2AKOctober 6, 2012 at 7:57 PMPeople do have heating and air problems on the weekends.
by JenB1983October 6, 2012 at 7:58 PMDude, really? Chill.
by AnonymousOctober 6, 2012 at 7:59 PM
As of right now I would say you are over reacting. Maybe they ran into other problems on the job?? But I would be suspicious and maybe start paying attention to other things that may seem like he's cheating.
by lwalker270October 6, 2012 at 7:59 PM
I'm not sure why you would automatically assume he's cheating...
by AnonymousOctober 6, 2012 at 7:59 PMMake me a burrrr-e-toe!
Oh no I don't know. Sorry. O just don't get why you threw your race in LOL.
by ittybit2012October 6, 2012 at 7:59 PMIt sounds to me like you overreacted.
October 6, 2012 at 8:00 PM
Dude, really? Chill.
by AnonymousOctober 6, 2012 at 8:00 PMIs that all he has done?
Sounds like you are way over reacting.
by Anonymous - Original PosterOctober 6, 2012 at 8:00 PMI know but it is only one call which is a swap out. It took him a whole 2 hours to do ours in our home and he did it alone. I don't know maybe I'm going crazy from being lonely? Lol
People do have heating and air problems on the weekends.