Mom Confessions
My question is...How would you react if your child told you they were gay?
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i would just say, "okay, awesome. thanks for letting me know. are you just wanting to tell me or is there a girl friend i get to meet!?" i would be just as excited to meet a new girl friend as i would a new boy friend. i would also make sure that there was no bullying going on in school or anything. i have been a big gay rights supporter since high school, so it really wouldnt phase me too much.
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I can't believe this is still an issue for people & I've never understood why who people choose to be bothers anybody else..? Sorry that your daughter & her gf have to deal with her mom being that way. That can't be easy. Hopefully she'll learn to accept it. -
[quote name="MomGoneGreen470" id="0"]It is against God and nature BUT as a Christian it is our duty to hate the sin and love the sinner (which I am a sinner) ........ So support but do not encourage, love but do not approve, have their back from a distance so they can learn. Whoa it sounds like hey be a loving parent and all will come to pass. FYI .... I have plenty of friends who thought they were gay but came to realize it is just society pushing a pagan non natural way of life.
"they will hate you because they first hated me". Mmmmm who said that? [/quot
Plenty of friends? I somehow highly doubt that. It's very unusual for someone to wake up one day and no longer be gay. Society doesn't push homosexuality, its quite the opposite. -
Quoting MichLW69:
oh my goodness she was sure of it so young! I have an 11 yr old son and I want to be prepared for if/when he tells me, I didn't realize they knew so young my cousin didn't come out to the family until she was 19. Thank you for your help. -
my mother is gay. i'd probably react the same. as long as my child is happy. thats all i care about.
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Quoting MomGoneGreen470:
It is against God and nature BUT as a Christian it is our duty to hate the sin and love the sinner (which I am a sinner) ........ So support but do not encourage, love but do not approve, have their back from a distance so they can learn. Whoa it sounds like hey be a loving parent and all will come to pass. FYI .... I have plenty of friends who thought they were gay but came to realize it is just society pushing a pagan non natural way of life.
"they will hate you because they first hated me". Mmmmm who said that?my mother is gay. i've had girlfriends. and i'm a witch. do you want to start bashing pagans now? just so you know the christians have killed innocent people for thousands of yrs for a religion that includes aspects taken from paganism.
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I would be perfectly fine with it. Her dad and I have actually discussed this and we both would love it if she were, that way we wouldn't have to deal with any bone head boys. LOL! I am bisexual myself.
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I don't know lol. I'm sure I'd be shocked at first.
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I would be just as excited and nervous if he brought home a boy as I would if he brought home a girl. Lol. -
as long as my kid is happy and treated right by who ever they want to be with then yes i would be happy and jumping for joy.and its people like you who shouldnt have kids if you cant accept them for who they are
Quoting Anonymous:
Did I say anything is wrong with being gay. I dont care if you happy your kid is gay I will not be jumping for joy or throwing a party.
Quoting luvmymunchkins3:
well it doesnt matter what YOU want it should only matter what THEY want and there is NOTHING wrong with being gay
Quoting Anonymous:
No but I don't think it will hurt. I did have the pastor pray over them when they were born. And that was one of my prayers. To each they own but I dont want my kids to be gay.
Quoting luvmymunchkins3:
Pray the gay away? Do you really think it works that way?
Quoting Anonymous:
I would be disappointed and try to pray the gay away